AITA for not disclosing the fact that I’m trans to a roomate?
I’m Ftm20 and Mind you, my name in the system is not updated. But when I got the email that we would be living together I jumped the gun and immediately introduced myself as my chosen name as well as gave her my Instagram. But meeting me I guess she was confused bc after the fact she knocked on my door asking “you’re a guy right?” And telling me she didn’t know what to do bc her dad’s conservative about stuff.
So I just said I was a guy and now her parents want her to move out. I don’t think me telling her would have changed anything. Because I still pass as a guy and If she doesn’t know I’m trans to her parents who don’t seem the most knowledgeable will still see a guy.
I feel a bit guilty but I was quite literally forced into a corner. So AITA?