Every time I post anything even slightly vulnerable on here, people immediately ask me what my “type” is.
I know every time I get vulnerable on this app, people suddenly become deeply invested in my lore lol so here we go.
One question I get asked constantly is: What’s your type? And every single time, I answer like I’m being asked to solve a math equation Because I genuinely never know.
I don’t think I’ve ever had a strict “type.” My attraction system is honestly all vibes and psychological warfare.
In my perfect world, I’d want someone tall, fit, intelligent, slightly introverted, who spoils me and quietly ambitious. like someone deeply focused on building something meaningful for himself and Like a gamer guy, but emotionally layered.
Someone thoughtful. Observant. Reserved with everyone else, but secretly soft with me. The kind of guy who looks calm and composed in public but is quietly obsessed in private.
I think my ideal relationship dynamic is basically: emotionally expressive girl + intellectual introvert boyfriend.
Me yapping about life while he works quietly on his laptop, occasionally looking over like I’m the greatest thing that’s ever happened to him.
That’s cinema to me. Lol
And I think what I want most is mutual admiration. Someone who thinks I’m beautiful, funny, emotionally alive, interesting someone not trying to “humble” me into being less. I think love is supposed to feel safe and exciting at the same time.
Also, before anyone starts projecting in my comments, I’m actually very happy single. Like deeply. I love my life, my friends, my work, my routines, my peace. This isn’t me searching for a missing piece. Just me being honest about a dynamic I think would be really sweet if it ever happened naturally.
Anyway. Back to pretending I don’t have feelings on the internet.