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My mom posted this on status today and it broke my heart.

She lost her mom when she was 15.

There's no age when we stop needing our mothers. We always need them.

May Allah protect every mother who is still with us and grant the highest place in Jannah to the ones who have passed away🙏

u/TacoCatAgainn — 10 hours ago

What are you opinions on KAF?

I mean it has become my go to place for coffee. And I personally think they have good coffee and drinks collection.

Even the chillers hit your brain cells.

I would rate 9.6/10. 👌🏻❤️

u/aixiotic77 — 17 hours ago

I feel like I'm losing my potential because of my family

im 23F and recently graduated with a software engineering degree. i thought i'd finally get to chill after uni, but instead im just sitting at home and honestly it's so draining.

i do have an online job that pays around 60–70k/month, so im earning, but my family has always been really problematic. living at home is mentally exhausting and i feel like im losing all my potential because i can't really focus on myself or my career.

im applying for software engineering jobs too, but most of the salaries im seeing are around the same as what im already making online, except i'd also have to spend money on fuel and commuting. it makes me wonder if taking one would even improve my situation.

what worries me the most is that if things stay like this, my family will probably try to marry me off within the next year or two, and honestly im traumatized by marriage. at this point, all i want is some peace in my life, whether that comes from moving out or eventually finding the right partner.

i just feel completely stuck and i genuinely don't know what my next step should be.

has anyone else been in a similar situation?

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u/Lumpy-Paramedic0 — 19 hours ago

The only good thing happened to me was ts place (Kumrat)

This was my first ever hiking experience!

Me and 2 of my friends started our journey at 11:00 pm from Islamabad and reached Thal via Coaster. From Thal, we reached Tiki Top by Jeep, and that's where the hike began.

It was a 3 to 4 hr hike from Tiki Top to Jaz Bhanda. Being a low Hb girl, it was never easy, but I had given my word to my friend, "I won't give up." And I meant it.

We finally reached Jaz Bhanda and spent the night there. The view was majestic, so unreal that I genuinely can't put it into words.

The next morning, the hike started again. From Jaz Bhanda to Mini Katora and thn to Main Katora Lake. It was almost a 3 hr uphill hike. Finally, we climbed the death zone of Katora Lake, and my eyes witnessed one of the most beautiful views ever. It was worth every step.

The same day, we down hiked from Katora Lake back to Tiki Top. It started raining midway, and the track became slippery. Idk how, but I managed to keep hiking. I felt like I was falling apart, but the only thing running through my mind was, I can endure ts too. I'm not weak. I won't give up.

After reaching Tiki Top, we continued our journey to Kumrat. By the time we reached our room, my body couldn't carry me anymore. I jus had dinner and went straight to sleep.

The next morning, we visited Kala Chasma, explored Kumrat Valley, and then travelled back to Islamabad.

Ts journey taught me sm things. I learned how to survive in situations where you lit have no one to hold you. You have to stay strong even when you want to cry, even when you want to stop.....you still have to keep moving.

Ts journey was jus like life. You get tired, but you have to keep walking. You want to fall, but you have to stay strong. You want to jus sit down and cry, but you have to pull yourself together and keep swimming.

u/Pookie_0219 — 17 hours ago
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Haunted Vibes

Another park in F8. Had a great night with some friends here. Memorable times

u/Damnnnnn_5 — 20 hours ago

sharing things I learned (social therapy) - How to be a good man in a rls

I learnt this and I'm trying to become a good man; I want to share it with you guys too.

Don’t be rude to women in general. Don’t be rude to the one you love, be a gentle good person, be her harbor, be her safety, don’t argue, don’t yell, give her a good life, let her live a prosperous life. 

Often men realize their mistakes and stupidity later on, and regret, after stupid dumb arguments – they are not worth it at all. No stupid argument is worth ruining your relationship. Communication and understanding is the key. Winning arguments is NOT the point. Learn to be cooperative.

It’s just nature; to be a good man, you must learn to be soft, be kind, be happy. Love yourself so you can love others.

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u/newtnutsdoesnotsuck — 18 hours ago

I have a question

Whenever i come across a news/post about harassment, I find out the accused men unattractive and not well in the looks department. I have never seen an accused to be an attractive and handsome man. is the harasser always a physically not-good-looking man ? Or only such people are highlighted?

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u/PsychologicalScar526 — 14 hours ago
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Horrific graphic details given by foreigner ladies connected with Raza Dar

I just read the court statement of Astrid Gabriela, it's graphic, horrifying, and hard to forget. A woman lured under business pretext, held captive, tortured, and repeatedly assaulted in Lahore. The main accused is Raza Dar, reportedly grandson of Deputy PM Ishaq Dar.

This is the same old story. Pakistan's ashrafiya (elite) always escape accountability using power and connections. All these f*cking politicians and establishment are same. Money and power has seriously challenged that morally.

Our society has a serious problem with its men. They are mentally sick — can't even handle simple business disputes like adults by sitting and talking. Every disagreement or frustration turns into sexual violence because women are seen as easy targets. This brings shame to Pakistan at home and abroad.

Ishaq Dar must resign immediately for a fair investigation. But let's be honest — nothing will change. The powerful will protect their own, as they always do.

I wish the international courts should be intervene. Pakistan needs this slap and treatment.. Enough is enough..

We need real change, but in this broken system, it feels hopeless. Power will remain immunity. Ordinary people will keep suffering in silence.

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Poor ppl in Pakistan give their best image to make Pakistan look hospitable whereas Ishaq dars grandson grapes foreigners loots them, what does that do our effort of making Pakistan look good when the ministers don't care about Pakistan and abuse foreigners?!?

u/OneAd9521 — 1 day ago

Obsessed with banana bread but trying to lose weight

Does anyone know any low calorie banana bread options available in isb or rwp where I can order from. I’m trying to stay in a calorie deficit, but obsessed with banana bread these days and craving it a lot.

However, it’s hella fatty and I need some low calorie options to satisfy the cravings and still lose some weight. Any recommendations?

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u/Humble-Pudding5179 — 1 day ago

I need help I'm feeling like I'm gonna pass out

I'm feeling nausea's and cramps are killing me ... I took a painkiller but didn't work... barely ate something... should i call ambulance or should I wait till morning so that i can go to doctor by myself

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u/nidaanwerr — 1 day ago

26M Emotionally numb from past experiences, and it’s stopping me from getting married. Will I ever be able to open up again?

I’m a 26-year-old guy and honestly feel completely emotionally unavailable right now and ik how much girls hate guys like us especially if your partner is that way even if they dont i feel like i might ruin a life of someone by getting married. Over the years, a lot of rough life experiences forced me to build up thick walls just to protect myself, and at some point, my brain essentially shut down emotionally. Right now, my entire existence is on autopilot, work, hit the gym, go home, repeat. That routine keeps me sane and disciplined, but it leaves zero room for actual connection. The biggest issue right now is intense pressure from my family to settle down and get married, but I refuse to drag someone into a marriage when I feel this guarded and numb. I want to build a real future, but I honestly don’t know how to let my guards down or unlearn this detachment. For the all those who went through this kind of emotional survival mode, how did you break out of the autopilot loop? Were you ever able to let go of the past and live a normal, emotionally available life again?

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u/Less_View_3013 — 23 hours ago
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What should i do

As-salamu Alaikum everyone.

I graduated with a BS in one of the natural sciences. Unfortunately, in Pakistan it seems to have very limited career prospects outside of teaching. Now my parents want me to pursue an MPhil in the same field, but I honestly don't see how that would improve my future. It feels like a classic sunk cost fallacy—continuing down the same path just because I've already invested years into it.

I'm 24 and, thankfully, I don't have any major financial or family responsibilities for the next 5–6 years. That gives me some time to switch careers if it's the right decision.

I've been considering CA (Chartered Accountancy), even though it's completely different from my academic background. Is it still a worthwhile option to start at this stage? How are the job prospects and earning potential compared to spending more years on an MPhil with uncertain outcomes?

I'd really appreciate advice from people who have changed careers or found themselves in a similar situation. If you think there's a better path than CA, I'm open to suggestions.

JazakAllah khair.

u/Wild_Attention_4364 — 1 day ago