FLEV or ELVF?
Hello! Iknow the title has quite different types, but I would like some help in figuring out what I am!
Long story short, I understand myself rather well in other systems (enneagram for example), but this one is a bit difficult for me. I do feel like i have 2L (multiple people confirmed) and low volition, but can't quite pin down the rest.
Could anyone provide examples of how 1F looks in FLEV in comparison to 4F? Because I was proposed the idea of FLEV due to "its 1F looking similar to 4F on the outside". I did read some description of FLEV and found it to be relatable, even if not 100% in minor cases.
And also would greatly appreciate examples of the difference between 1E and 3E, especially in these cases. I would consider myself a rather emotional person/open about my feelings, but only when applied to positive/neutral ones.
When it comes to any negative feelings I'm experiencing at the moment, I usually have a hard time opening up to others in fear of being too much or a burden and end up just being quiet, isolating or playing down my troubles (trusting with my honest feelings only to the very close and safe people). I don't like experiencing negativity, but at the same time end up dwelling on my feelings until I emotionally feel like it's appropriate to move on, or get distracted by something enough to stop dwelling on it.
I know there are cases where 3E can genuinely struggle or even suffer from feeling or expressing their emotions, but I don't think it applies to me. I am usually the person to encourage others to be emotionally open, and I'm definitely not seen as cold or unapproachable by others, maybe just very shy.
Any thoughts or suggestions on this? I'm open to considering other types or placements!