u/Azhar-MS

My husband just finished all the payments to his ex wife and her dad ( he owed him a debt ) after 4 years from his divorce .. anyway I found an email from my husband to his ex wife’ dad asking him to confirm the that he received all the payments, which he answered yes and wished all the best then my husband replied saying thanks for your wishes, “and he accepts everything but it is hard to accept that someone was unfaithful which what it was”( he meant the ex wife.., she cheated on him and asked for divorce, he found out that she was cheater after the divorce)

Anyways, he continued saying, anyway I hope everyone is happy after all.

And then the dad replied saying you seem in a good place, and that we have to look forward and not think of the not good things etc …

Idk how to feel about this exchange! Part of me thinks that he wanted to tell the dad she was indeed cheater because the dad was dying it.. and part of me thinks.. why does he still care and why would he wish “ everyone happiness “

How would you feel about think if it was you?
Not sure if my husband is still stuck in the past, or it was to tell the dad “she was a cheater as I told you” why would he care?

They were together for 16 years ( married for 5 or 6 years)

Been married to my husband for 3 and a half years now, total together fours and half years and we have a baby boy together. My husband is the sweetest, very thoughtful, warm, loving, provider.

My only issue is that he was married before and his ex wife was the one to ask for a divorce, and I can’t stop myself from thinking he still loves her, ( btw she is married now with a kid) .. every night when I am alone I think about him and her, I go and search her in all social medias and it is driving crazy and sad…
How can I stop this feeling? How can i focus only on our relationship? I asked my husband about his previous relationship, and of course he said the right things… ah didn’t know marrying a divorced man would be this hard!