Confused about the girls family
So, the girl’s father and Chacha came to our house to meet my family and me. Whenever her father left the guest room, he would cough, though I didn’t think much of it at first. Later, when my family met the girl along with her father, brother, Chacha, and Chachi, I noticed a few things that made me uncomfortable. Her brother came all the way from south just for this meeting when her dad and chacha chachi were already here.
Her aunt kept her ghunghat on whenever the girl’s father was nearby or sitting at the table. Her father mostly sat facing away from everyone and did not participate much in the conversation, unlike how actively he spoke during the earlier meeting at our house. Also, when the girl and I went to a separate table to talk privately, her brother came and sat with us instead of leaving us alone to have a conversation.
All of this made me feel that the family might be very conservative. Personally, I am not conservative, nor do I prefer such an environment. However, the girl lives independently here and works in an office, so I feel she herself may not share the same conservative mindset.
We have already declined the match once, but her family is being very persistent and wants us to meet again. I am now confused about whether I should continue talking to this family or not.