u/BU-chank

So my boyfriend's ex, Robin, died in a train/sidewalk accident a few years ago and he was pretty shaken up by it. I think our relationship was a bit of a coping mechanism towards the beginning but has since flourished and grown to be so much more. He has overcome his trauma. He has since befriended and forgiven the train that killed her.

We have a baby on the way, which he insists on naming after his ex. I'm really conflicted, as the decision makes me uncomfortable but I don't want to get in the way if this is a moment he really needs to feel closure. AITA?