Am i [27] overthinking or does my girlfriend [24F] of 5 years not like me
So I [27M] and my girlfriend [24F] have been dating for 5 years with some challenges in between but have been going amazing up until last month
The most recent issue that has caused me to spiral is me and her have been talking about marriage and moving in and it as they get closer I feel like she has become hesitant saying things such as “ I don’t want to hate my husband” “ I don’t know why, but you tick me off so easily” and has recently started acting quite rude to me however when it finally comes down to the point of me almost leaving she always cries and apologizes and says the nicest things to me
Things were looking good again however something “small” that just happened has sent me into a depression and contemplating everything
Tldr: My card was being fraudulently used and they took over $400 so i call to cancel and for the time being i have no money available till my new card comes in
I ask my girlfriend if i can use her card till my new card arrives (for food, drinks, gas) and she says “i dont want you having my card” then i say i will zelle you and she says “i have no money so no”
Now I know shes not rich however she has well over
$$$$ available after all her bills are paid currently and we are even planning a trip within 2 weeks. And her denial to my request of help honestly has shattered my heart
I feel like we should be a team and even when i have no money or less than $100 in my account i would not hesitate for a second to help her out.
Maybe i am overthinking but i just need some advice on how to navigate this current situation and if the signs are there that i am refusing to see
There is obviously so much more however its crazy how this is whats tipping me to a breaking point