u/Background-Fan-2387

Lost my brother a week ago.

I’m not really the type to open up to my family about what I’m feeling. I never realized how lonely grief could be until now. It’s weird how life keeps moving while yours feels like it paused.
I’m not posting this because I’m looking for comfort or someone to fix what I’m feeling. I know no one can.

I just miss having someone to talk to every day. Someone to share random stories with, laugh at dumb memes, ask how the day went, or simply remind each other that tomorrow can still be a good day.

Not looking to rush into anything or use anyone as a distraction. Just hoping to meet a genuine friend.

For the record, I’m actually a pretty fun person. 😂 And I’d like to think I’m cute too. So if you’re cute too… maybe we can be cute together. HAHAHA.
If you’re also looking for a wholesome daily chat buddy, my DMs are open.

Are there still guys out there who actually like giving the “princess treatment” and being emotionally available for their girl?

Not talking about anything extravagant or over the top. More like… the small things. The kind of care where you don’t even have to ask because they already know you. Like noticing when you’re quiet, remembering the little details, checking in without it feeling forced, and just being present in a calm, consistent way.

My love language is acts of service, so I really value the little things. I know how much they matter. I’m the type who would cross oceans for someone I love and do everything I can to make their life easier and more comfortable.

But all I really want is someone who can meet me on the same level emotionally. Someone who understands that effort isn’t always loud or grand, but steady and thoughtful. Someone I don’t have to constantly explain myself to, because they’re already tuned in to me.

I’m not even someone who asks for a lot. I just miss that feeling of being emotionally safe and understood without having to overthink or ask for it.

Does that still exist, or is it just something people don’t really do anymore?