r/PhR4Dating

61 [M4F] - Hiring a "Stepmom" for my funny, widowed super "Dad"

Hi everyone. I’m writing this post on behalf of my dad, who is 61 years old. He’s not tech-savvy enough for Reddit, but he genuinely deserves a shot at finding real love and companionship again.

​A little bit about him:

His History

He lost his wife (my mom) back in 2021 due to covid. It took him a long time to heal. He recently tried to open his heart again to a potential partner, but unfortunately, she ended up breaking his trust and cheating on him. Despite the heartbreak, he still believes in love.

Personality & Looks:

He’s genuinely funny, has a great sense of humor, and is very easy to talk to. Bonus points: he’s actually quite good-looking for his age! He has a very strong "provider mindset"—he takes care of the people he loves.

Current Setup

He is fully independent. He has his own small home to live in and runs a mini-business that comfortably supports his daily needs. He’s not looking for financial help; he just wants a partner.

Location He's residing in Novaliches, Quezon city. I hope you're near so we can drive nearby and start the date right away

​What he's looking for: He wants a genuine woman (ideally in her late 40s to 60s) who is honest, kind, and ready for a serious commitment. He doesn't want games. He just needs someone to talk to, share daily life with, and be together with until his last breath.

​If you have a mom, aunt, or know a lovely lady who is single and looking for a genuine, kind-hearted gentleman to grow old with, please shoot me a DM. I can introduce them or help coordinate a phone call/coffee date.

​Serious inquiries only, please. Let's help our parents find happiness!

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u/TakeMyBatt — 5 hours ago

27 [F4M] Looking for a constant person

Not looking for love, a relationship, or someone to text 24/7. Just looking for a constant!!

I know everyone’s busy being an adult (same), but I’m hoping to find someone who actually tries to make time. It doesn’t have to be every day, and I’m not asking to be your priority. Just enough effort to make this feel like an actual connection instead of replying once every 3 days.

FWBs? Casual? Sure. But I still believe those only work when both people communicate, respect each other’s time, and actually enjoy talking outside of meeting up.

**About me:**
• 27F, South (Biñan/Sta. Rosa area)
• Morena, pretty, and normal BMI
• Working professional with a decent work-life balance and lots of free time
• Madaldal when we click, kanal/aircon humor, clingy in moderation
• High ssx drive, but I appreciate good conversations just as much
• Loves coffee runs and spontaneous late-night hangouts

**About you:**
• Around 28–35
• Preferably from the South too (Biñan/Sta. Rosa area)
• Working professional
• Emotionally mature and communicates like an adult
• Single, hygienic, respectful and cute din sana
• Actually has time to maintain whatever this is
• Oks lang kahit walang car, pero big plus if meron lol (im not maarte)

If you’re the type who disappears after one meetup or replies once a week, we’re probably not a match.
Let’s keep it simple, fun, and consistent!! Hit me up with an intro 💌

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u/itsnotmeae — 4 hours ago

30 [F4M] Good Conversations, Bad Jokes, and Better Days.

Lost my brother a week ago.

I’m not really the type to open up to my family about what I’m feeling. I never realized how lonely grief could be until now. It’s weird how life keeps moving while yours feels like it paused.
I’m not posting this because I’m looking for comfort or someone to fix what I’m feeling. I know no one can.

I just miss having someone to talk to every day. Someone to share random stories with, laugh at dumb memes, ask how the day went, or simply remind each other that tomorrow can still be a good day.

Not looking to rush into anything or use anyone as a distraction. Just hoping to meet a genuine friend.

For the record, I’m actually a pretty fun person. 😂 And I’d like to think I’m cute too. So if you’re cute too… maybe we can be cute together. HAHAHA.
If you’re also looking for a wholesome daily chat buddy, my DMs are open.

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u/Background-Fan-2387 — 15 hours ago

29 [F4M] Tired of being someone’s character development

I’m so tired of being lied to over and over again. Like, I’m genuinely honest, loyal, and I know I’m a decent girl naman. I don’t play games, I communicate, and I always have good intentions. Pero somehow, ako pa rin yung laging naloloko. Ewan ko na lang talaga. Hahaha.

About me:
5’3”
In the medical field
Into photography, drawing, and indie music.
Team well-done sunny side up
Strawberry and mango-flavored anything? I’m in.
Tocino and longganisa will always have my heart.
Animal lover. 🐶🐱
Madaling ma-attach (working on it, I swear).
Soft-hearted to a fault. Kaya nadadali ng mga nagbebenta sa daan
Masyadong mabait, kaya naaabuso.
Been cheated on twice, so honesty is a big deal for me.
Can’t cook to save my life, but I’ll happily do the dishes.
Masipag, may initiative, and medyo OC at times.
Looking for something genuine. If you’re into mind games or mixed signals, please skip me.

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u/furiousbunnyyy — 21 hours ago

34 [M4F] tall guy from short girl

Not American tall. Pinoy tall lang.

Malapit na matapos ang weekend. How was yours? Anong series currently are you watching? May bagong episodes Yung Rick and Morty. You should check that out. Baka may ma recommend kayo na series since I'm just planning to stay at home today.

5'10, Moreno, employed, with cats and a community feeder, normal BMI. Works out and jogs. Currently ginagawa ng apps on my free time. Just for fun. Mas okay sa beach than bundok

You: shorter than me. Around ncr sana so we can meet. Hindi karton ang tatay. Pet friendly. Single.

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u/JuanDeLaCrux — 1 day ago

25 [F4M] Thanks, God I Replied!

hello??!! hii ?!! ako pa ba?? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA chz oh 'di ba walang connect sa title? HAHAHAHA.
anw, gusto ko lang ng genuine connection with bardagulan

about me:
- nbsb (kaya pa yata 'to hanggang maging senior)
- working professional
- may sense daw??
- funny naman ( whatdouthink?)
- 5'7

about u:
- someone with sense
- funny
- maayos typings
- older din sa akin ng 2 or 5 years ( pass sa atabs, sakit sa ulo)
- pass din sa dds

last ko na 'to. pag walang nagwork, wag na lang hshshshshahahah. ayon na muna. will just ignore mere hi and hello. kbyeeeeeee!!

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u/Ok-Nothing-8172 — 1 day ago

31 [F4M] hangout with me this week

I’ll be in Manila this week as a solo traveler, celebrating my upcoming birthday. Gonna visit museums, bars, and mag foodtrip ulit sa Cubao and Binondo. Hangout with me?

Preferences/Non-negotiables:
• Easy on the eyes, dresses well, and carries himself well (bonus if mabango)
• Has a car (non-negotiable pls. I don't enjoy commuting or motorcycles because of the heat.
Happy to share gas expenses.)
• Not necessarily lean or fit basta hindi yung chubby to obese please (na catfish na ako before)
•at least 5'5”
• age: 28 - 37 only
• Can actually hold conversations. No to mahiyain pls
•Can take decent photos and doesn’t mind taking selfies together (for the memories ofc)

• not into foreigners, btw.

•must be SINGLE

About me:
• bisaya, Petite, dresses well, cute daw according to workmates and even strangers

Kindly introduce and describe yourself. Let's exchange pics early on because attraction matters.

I’d also prefer to spend the trip with just one person rather than meeting different people each day. it’s better that way to get to know someone and enjoy each other.

To know if you've read my post properly, pls indicate in your DM "i’ve met your preferences.” It will save both of us some time.

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u/hazymindshiz — 1 day ago

26 [F4M] Wanna be my favorite person?

Hi! Still trying my luck to find the person I can shower my affections with, so why not do it here again coz dating apps are not for me and I’m currently work at home so there’s zero chance na makahanap ng organic encounter HAHAHA 🥹 Please don’t message na if you do not know how to handle a conversation at puro hi hello lang yan

About me:

— 26 years of age

— 5’1 (yeah i’m smol)

— Single

— fair skinned woman with the cutest deformation on earth aka dimples

— on the chubbier side (i’m trying to go back to working out na, baka you wanna try doing it with me baka pati tayo mag work out din? LOL)

— nurse girlie na sana kaso I hate blood, now working in the BPO industry (morning shift) 🙂

— ambivert

— owns 10+ cats and one very poging golden retriever

— eldest daughter of my parents

— loves to cook so pwede kita paglutuan ng favorite food mo

About you:

— preferably older than me (gusto ko ma-baby please lang)

— has a stable job (basta hindi illegal yan, okay lang)

— hopefully taller than me (5’7-5’10) preference lang sorry

— physical appearance? just come as you are. as long as you know how to make yourself presentable and smell good.

If you’ve reached the end of my post, don’t hesitate to send me a DM. Give me your best intro and we can swap pictures too if you like :)

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u/NonchalantMeowmeow — 1 day ago

24 [F4M] Am I the only one who wants to build love instead of waiting to "fall" in love?

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I'm 24 (turning 25 this year), NBSB, and I live in Manila while working in Makati. Between work and commuting, I don't naturally meet a lot of new people, so I tried dating apps (which I've since quit) and even Reddit.

What I've noticed is that most conversations never really go anywhere. We exchange a few messages, maybe talk for a few days, then someone disappears or loses interest. After a while, constantly starting from scratch becomes more tiring than exciting.

It made me realize that maybe what I'm looking for is a little different.

I'm not expecting to fall head over heels before entering a relationship. I'd rather meet someone who's also dating with intention. Someone who's open to getting to know each other, exchanging photos early (because physical attraction is important to me too), and if we both feel there's potential, giving the relationship a real chance instead of endlessly staying in the "talking stage."

I don't expect instant love. I want love to grow through consistency, shared experiences, quality time, and choosing each other every day.

As for the kind of person I'm hoping to meet:

- Someone looking for a long-term relationship, not just someone to pass the time.

- Someone who communicates openly.

- Someone who's kind, emotionally mature, and patient.

- Someone who naturally likes taking the lead sometimes because I'm hilariously indecisive.

- Someone who's okay with a quiet introvert who eventually won't stop talking once she's comfortable.

- Bonus points if you're into coffee dates, anime, random weekend adventures, or simply enjoying each other's company.

Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic, but I'd love to find a relationship that lasts, not just for months, but hopefully for life.

Does anyone else feel this way, or am I romanticizing the idea of love growing after commitment?

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u/Suspicious-Ad9495 — 1 day ago

23 [F4M] pagod na maging single opo, need na kiligin again!

i love love — the cute texts, the deep talks, the “I saw this and thought of you” kind of thing. i'm here for the wholesome thing!

About me:

\* Plus size (I know, not ideal but I'm starting with this because I don't wanna waste your time. Also, I'm working on my body na rin.)

\* 23y/o, 5'1

\* Cute naman daw (?!?!?)

\* Working professional

\* Mom of the group (like from barkada to class to everything HAHAHAHA)— as an eldest daughter!!!

\* I love reading (the fiction type oki? the kilig ones hindi yung pang smart people huhu)

\* I enjoy cooking for the people i care for

\* I like staying at cafes for a quiet day to just read and enjoy a good matcha + potcor huhu

About you:

\* 26-30y/o (i knoow, i prefer older than me lang talaga)

\* Taller than me (please)

\* Hygienic

\* Smart 😣 (i knoow 😩 preference ko talaga smarter guys— i like learning chz)

\* If funny ka, super plus points

\* Emotionally mature (yung di sana nsfw lang hanap pls)

\* Good communicator

\* Plus points if cute and pogi from visayas ka since i'm from here din hehe

Choosy noh? huhu i know!! But I hope with the right person, it isn't much to ask. So, if you’re someone who values deep connection, warm hugs, and a partner who’s all in once the comfort kicks in, then we might just vibe! DM me with more than just a hi please!!

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u/struggling_hooman — 1 day ago

30 [M4A] The ultimate convo ender

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Ikaw na nag iinitiate ng convo or keep it going and you trying to get a person's interest can be a huge work especially if you just got back to dating or if you're someone who isn't really good at it.

What are the ultimate convo enders in chat for you?

Mine's "Hahahaha"

Pag siya nag chat ng ganyan, and walang follow up chat, it's done. Ang hirap na agad irecover ng convo. I get blacked out and I run out of topics to add that won't sound like I'm too interested on that person.

For you, what's that chat that literally kills the moment and any tips on how to bounce back from it?

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u/anchohos — 2 days ago

25 [M4F] Gusto ko na ulit magmahal dang it naman e

I never thought I’d end up posting here, but maybe the best stories start in unexpected places.
I’m 25, a registered nurse working rotating shifts, so my schedule is chaotic. But when I care about someone, I make time.

Physically, I’m 5’6”, chubby (currently working on becoming healthier), hygienic, and I think I carry myself well. Every day I’m trying to become the best version of myself not just for someone else, but for me.

I’m also the type who can rewatch Friends and The Big Bang Theory countless times without getting tired of them.

A little something about my past:
I was in a 4-year relationship, and it ended on a really painful note. She cheated on me with someone she met on Bumble. For a while, I questioned if opening my heart again was worth the risk.
It took time, but I healed. I rebuilt myself. Today, I’m no longer looking for someone to fix me I already learned how to stand on my own.
I’m simply ready to love all out again.

About you:
• Around my age (22–29)
• Kind and emotionally mature
• Communicates instead of disappearing
• Has a great sense of humor
• Ambitious but knows how to slow down and enjoy the little moments
If this somehow reaches the right person…
Tell me something you’ve never told a stranger before

and also, Hugsy wants to say Hi! Message mo na raw ako.

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u/Big_War9316 — 1 day ago

29 [F4M] looking for someone to break the routine

29F
Single
Decent
Good sense of humor
Can enjoy deep talks and kanal humor at the same time

Life has been pretty peaceful lately—which Im grateful for—but it’s also become a little too predictable. Work, home, sleep, repeat. This is my first time posting here, so why not try something different?

I’m hoping to meet someone from Pampanga, Bataan, Zambales since it’d be easier to grab coffee if we click. I’m open to chatting first and seeing where things go—no pressure, just genuine conversation.

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u/Designer_Muffin_4190 — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] Looking for a serious relationship

Hey there.

This is my first time to try posting here I thought why not give it a try.

I am looking for someone to speak with about anything under the sun. To whom I can share about my day and vice versa. To have deep and meaningful conversations with. To be free and open to share each other’s struggles, joys, and hopes without judgment. To care for each other sincerely and genuinely.

If you’re looking for the same, I’m open to get to know you more and your story. My inbox is available. 🙂

About me:
•I’m more of a listener but depends on the topic where I can be talkative as well
•I’m more introverted than extroverted
•INFJ
•music: Bruno Mars, Ben and Ben, 90’s music, any genres actually. I just love listening to music
•tv/series: I watch the news daily (pref. TV Patrol). I also follow tennis and basketball vids (even though I don’t play them)
•works in the finance industry
•resides in Metro Manila

What I’m into now:
•just renewed my passport so planning to travel OOC (as my last OOC was 2012 in SG). I’m planning to visit visa-free countries first (top of the list are Vietnam and Taiwan) before going to visa-required ones. Tara?
•I’m into fitness - I had a health scare last year so I had to be more fit. I started running and at-home workout since summer of 2025.

Physical attributes:
5’5
70kg
Decent-looking
Chinito-mestizo

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u/Confident_Two_2763 — 2 days ago

27 [M4F] DINNER OR FOODTRIP TODAY

Hello po! Baka may interested samahan ako mag foodtrip or dinner today. Willing to pick you up naman 😬

About me:

\\- 27

\\- East Side

\\-Working

\\- 5’7”

\\- Mostly busy during dayshift

\\- Can drive

\\- Willing kang samahan mag explore

About you:

— 24+ (same range age or older)

\\- Near East or within Metro Manila

\\- Working

\\- Madaldal or maraming hinanakit sa buhay

You can send me a message if you’re also looking for someone na naghahanap ng friendship haha. See you in my dms 😄.

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u/Various_Bridge_2600 — 2 days ago

33 [F4M] - LF date bud after our long work week

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🔶About Me:🔶

▪️Plus size (as my username suggests 😅)

▪️5ft Fil-Chinese

▪️Big 3 (it matters ata here 😅)

▪️Post-grad, holds 2 PRC licenses and certs (I stopped counting na 😹)

▪️CSO/NGO and outreach advocate

▪️Car enthusiast (active sa clubs)

▪️Anime lover

▪️walang sports but UFC fan (if it counts)🤣

▪️plays PS and NS (baka may for sale kang game jan 🤣)

▪️furmom of 3 doggos and fishies

▪️Koolpals, Comedy Manila fan and SPIT Fan

▪️Enjoys musical plays

▪️cooks and bake

▪️plants herbs (legal ones😅)

▪️frag head

▪️Into post-hardcore music

▪️Matcha lover

▪️American tv series enjoyer and books

▪️loves pillows and plushies

🔶YOU:🔶

▪️Clean mabango and decent

▪️Intellectual

▪️Thoughtful

▪️Also drives (para shared interest)

▪️mabilis mag reply sana

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Include a brief self-description

Skip if you’re not aligned with what I’m looking for 😅

Let’s keep it wholesome and fun,hit me up if you think we vibe ☺️

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u/imabearletscuddle — 2 days ago

35 [M4F] Maybe this is the quiet beginning of something beautiful.

Hey there. I'm really just looking for a safe space with someone, a place where we can talk about absolutely anything and everything without any judgment. I love living life at a gentle, comfortable pace, and I genuinely miss having those deep, meaningful conversations that make you forget about your phone.

​I’m single and truly ready to connect. I’ve taken the time to heal, so I’m coming into this emotionally available, free of past baggage, and just hoping to find someone who is in that same peaceful chapter of their life. No pressure, no games, and absolutely no rushing. Just two hearts getting to know each other, sharing stories, laughs, and whatever life brings our way. If you’re genuine, kind, and looking for something real, my inbox is always open. I’d love to hear your story. 🙂

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u/Careful_Fudge_6071 — 2 days ago

27 [M4F] Looking for a drinking and foodtrip buddy tonight around Timog.

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Baka meron pwede maaya uminom dito around timog sana hehe treat ko. Casual conversation lang with beer and foodtrip.

abt me:

\- mabait

\- 420 friendly

\- mabango (fraghead)

\- 5'9

\- Average looking

\- lives in qc (timog/morato area)

\- self employed

\- catholic

\- loves basketball, cars and motorcycles

\- loves cats and dogs

\- loves to eat

abt you :

\- normal bmi or chubby (pass sa obese sorry)

\- mabango

\- 22-29

\- may pangarap sa buhay

\- lives near sana 5

\-umiinom syempre

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u/Historical-Bake-4448 — 2 days ago

28 [F4M] Looking for a serious relationship only, be my last. Hard pass on casual flings

About You:
- 28–31 years old
- Well-educated
- Family-oriented
- At least 5’7 in height
- Hygienic and knows how to dress well
- Physically fit
- Loves to go out / spontaneous type of man

About Me:
- 5’5 in height
- Introvert, but a certified yapper once I’m comfortable
- Dog mom to a Shih Tzu
- Tourism graduate
- Currently working freelance in a WFH setup
- From Cavite

If you feel we’re on the same wavelength and share similar values, don’t hesitate to send me a DM and exchange selfie (cause be honest, it matters right?). I’d love to meet someone who’s serious about building a meaningful relationship. Coffee dates are a great start, let’s see where it goes!

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u/sassy_potatoh — 2 days ago

24 [F4M] ea na tiga etivac

Sawang sawa na ako mainggit sa friends ko na nasa long term relationships na, gusto ko na rin ng l4mbing ng mwamwa ng huggos, charot!

Anyway, I am:
- 24 years old
- 5'1 (pero hindi halata sa pictures kasi apparently i look tall daw maybe it's the way i present myself)
- currently job hunting
- in the finance/accounting field (explains why walang jowa kasi priority ang makapasa nung undergrad)
- rbf (pero mal4mbing ako once u get to know me)
- usually straightforward (i'm a bit assertive and i usually know what i want)
- feel ko maganda naman ako (7/10 siguro)
- sexy DAW sabi ng friends ko (pero more on the petite-sexy ha wag kayo mag expect ng grabeng curves pero to see is to believe nalang so hmu)
- nbsb (hard to believe pero nagka flings naman ako, hindi nga lang nag poprogress into serious relationships kasi nga busy sa undergrad at org nyeta)
- hopeless romantic
- into pickleball lately (di ako magaling i just enjoy it)
- nerdddd into things i'm interested in (in short yapper)

So if you are:
- attractive (confidence is key)
- 5'5 and above (need q lang ng mas matangkad magpapaka honest na ko)
- financially responsible and stable (in short may trabaho or may pangarap)
- without any emotional baggage
- not into casual stuff
- and is intentional when it comes to dating

hit me up with your picture so i can see if i find you attractive and let's start with that 🙂‍↕️

[update: sana naman guys u hit me up w more than hi/hello and u know how to carry a conversation 😭 if u can't match my energy i'm ignoring yall]

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u/These_Will6023 — 3 days ago