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31 [F4M] Maybe coffee with someone nice? ☕️

*REPOST*

Apparently when you close a message in Reddit, they will be gone forever 🥹 Im so sorry to those who felt ghosted 🙏

I’m just hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with. Maybe start with conversations over a good cup of coffee.

About me: 5’2”, dark brown eyes, wavy black hair, dimples on the cheeks, and curvy. I like exploring cafés and bookstores, trying new restaurants, weekend walks, and finding little places around the city. A little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m quite chatty. 😊

About you: Around 30+, kind, emotionally mature, funny, and someone who has a good heart. I like a man who has goals of his own but still knows how to enjoy the simple things in life.

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u/Key_Squirrel4293 — 1 day ago

27 [F4M] be my player number 2?

hi, trying this lang to make genuine connection and prolly see where it leads to!!!

read details below and if ur interested in getting to know me, meeting up, dating or more just do hit me up!

about me:
- 5’5 gurlie, normal bmi
- into fitness esp running
- fraghead (ysl enjoyer)
- gamer (peaked div 5 in dota2 while immo in val pero i play other games din so I can be your gaming buddy)
- musician bc I used to be a part ng band and did recitals before (piano & guitar)
- coffee-lover + loves trying out new coffeeshops
- postgrad student aka ur future lawyer char
- south mnl area

about you:
- 25 to 30 yrs old
- postgrad/working professional
- 5’7 up, normal bmi
- someone na sasamahan ako to go to Church bc I love starting my Sundays with a mass
- soft spoken type of guy
- family oriented person
- not a dds/inc wala lang personal preference
- someone who respects privacy and priorities in life
- has a good sense of humor and can carry good convo
- may common interest as mine para we can bond din haha
- preferrably nearby area so di hassle for us

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u/v1vre — 1 day ago

25 [F4M] putting myself out there again

hi! 🫶🏻 just putting myself out there and looking for someone i genuinely vibe with. i’m into gaming, food dates, cafés, random late night talks, and honestly just doing dumb shit together HAHAHA

looking for someone sweet, funny, communicative, and actually interested in getting to know each other.

preferably 25-29 and around metro manila!
also totally down to swap pics + socials right away, so you know who you’re talking to 👀 looks-wise i’m mestiza & kinda chinita hsjsksks

if you’re interested, send me your age, loc, and a little something about yourself!!

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u/dex-stellar — 1 day ago

26 [F4M] i wanna eat out and shop! 😔😔😔 Ikaw?

hello! craving din tai fung right nowwww

about me:
- still studying
- into true crime docu!
- loves good food!! (gusto ko i-date ako sa Makati hahahahahaha never been into any of the restau there!)
- love language is gift giving and physical touch!
- from mm
- 5’5
- not petite! more on the mid size!

about u:
- working kasi gusto ko older
- pls! mas matangkad sakin hahahaha
- may sense?!?!?!
- humihinga, may pangarap, may gustong patunayan din charot
-ayoko ng ghoster pls :(( if ayaw mo na kausap, paalam ka na lang!! no hard feelings naman hehe
-sweet & malambing! mahilig sa food dates!

lets see where it goes! kung di mag work,,, at least,,, ikaw na magtuloy hahahahaha see u on my dms! no hi/hello only please :)

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u/Itchy-Acadia5772 — 1 day ago

31 [M4F] | Metro Manila | Intentionally looking for a partner in life

31, single, based in Metro Manila. I’m at a point where I’d genuinely like to meet someone I can build a life with. I’m not in a rush, but I am dating with intention.

About me

  • Engineer working for a foreign company, and I also run a digital business
  • Financially independent, live alone, drive
  • Life gets pretty busy, but I make time when someone matters to me
  • Mostly a homebody, though I enjoy traveling every now and then; I’ve been around parts of Europe and Asia
  • Regularly go to the gym and have been wanting to try badminton or pickleball
  • I appreciate quiet and silence a lot. At the same time, I can talk about almost anything under the sun if the conversation is interesting
  • Curious, analytical, fairly stoic, and a little peculiar about certain things
  • Very much an animal person -- dogs, cats, insects, and most creatures people tend to avoid
  • Physical touch is probably the most natural way I show affection

Things I’m into

  • Greek mythology
  • Musicals and theatre plays, though mostly musicals -- Hadestown is my favorite, and I’m also really into EPIC: The Musical
  • MCU
  • HIMYM, Friends, TBBT, Rick and Morty, Inside Job, and similar shows
  • Nintendo Switch; currently spending an unreasonable amount of time on Monster Hunter
  • Puzzles and leisurely crosswords
  • Reading here and there -- Nietzsche, Poe, and whatever happens to catch my interest
  • Music from a pretty wide range of genres
  • Coffee. Enough that I somehow ended up owning six coffee machines

I tend to like women who are

  • Independent
  • Intellectual / naturally curious
  • Emotionally mature
  • Career-, business-, or passion-driven
  • Comfortable having a life and identity of their own

For reference, I’m 5'7", lean, healthy, and take care of myself. I tend to gravitate toward someone similar.

Probably important to know upfront

  • Ideally around 28–34
  • Metro Manila / nearby -- I don’t believe in LDRs
  • I’m not religious and don’t see myself ever becoming religious
  • Firmly child-free and won’t be having children of my own
  • I’m open to marriage
  • Clear communication matters a lot to me
  • DDS/BBM apologists, anti-vaxxers, and flat-earthers are hard incompatibilities

I’d like to meet someone I can talk to about serious things and completely stupid things, nerd out with, sit quietly beside without it feeling awkward, occasionally travel with, and eventually call my partner.

If you feel like we might get along, tell me about yourself -- and give me one topic you could talk about for half an hour without needing to prepare.

Note: all em-dashes are written by a human

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u/_fry_me_to_the_moon — 3 days ago

34 [M4F] Looking for that me and you against the world type of relationship.

I’m looking for something serious with the intention of settling down. I’ve talked and met with some people here but idk, it just didn’t work out. So i’m trying again.

About me. 5’8. 5’9 1/2 pag naka shoes haha. Working and based in the US. (Remote job, pwede mag base anywhere) Nauwi yearly. I’m in the Philippines right now. (Been here since may, will go back to the US ng October, back here sa pinas ng January) I’m fit, I used to workout daily, but not super buff. As for looks, my friends tell me I’m good looking, personally I think i’m a 7/10. 8/10 on a good day. I will probably ask you right away to exchange photos to avoid wasting your time if i’m not your type, (I’ll go first or i can give you my IG).

I like cars, gaming, tattoos, HIMYM, kdramas, fragrances, watches, working out, traveling and trying food and new experiences. I will spoil you if we vibe.

May pagka nerd. Fan ng MCU. Zelda. Kingdom Hearts. Pokemon (Lalo na Cards). Legos. (I like collecting)

About you. 24+, i don’t mind the gap as long as we get along. Professional. Someone who IS fit and active rin / takes care of their body and well being din because i really work hard on myself. Someone who I can build with. Yung pwede mong kakampi sa lahat, yung nothing else matters as long as we got each other. Someone na I can dance with on the beach on a rainy night. (I know may pagka hopeless romantic ako). Plus points if can travel sa US din, if not, i can fly home every now and then to date you. Plus points if chinita.

Non negotiables : Autopass sa DDS/BBM Supporter. Who you support is a reflection of your morals/values.

Pass din sa praning. I want us to have our own thing outside of our relationship. Hindi yung mundo natin ang isat isa. If that makes sense.

Probable red flags about me (para lang aware na kayo) : I get busy with work. And since nasa US ako most of the year it’s gonna be a challenge to make something work.

Minsan i shut down. I think i’ve got seasonal depression kase pag ber months tamad na tamad ako sa life. Haha.

Alsooo, I’m considering na mag base na rin sa Pinas or wherever life takes me since remote naman work ko.

Please don’t message me with just “Hi”. Like come on, i put in a bunch of info about me and you’re just gonna say Hi. Haha.

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u/Omegazerooo — 2 days ago

27 [M4F] - Looking for someone to be my goddess.

Don't know if that's the right way to do this and I'm sorry if it isn't.

I've been struggling to find someone to be my dom and make me beg to even be able to look at her eyes.

I'm a pretty guy, 27yo, 174cm, curly hair, tanned body and a little well trained from the gym. I have a lot of tattoos in my arms and I'm really interested in being able to have someone to be my owner. In my past relationships I've always been the kind of guy who would praise the woman who I'm with and treat her as a goddess because I think that making her feel that way would make her see how much I adore her.

I like a lot of things, anime, games, tv shows, music, all of that can be a topic for us if you want to.

If you're interested in being the owner of a man who would do anything to make you glad and proud of him, please, dm me, I beg you

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u/Elattio — 2 days ago

25 [M4F] Girlfriend Application

(Yes, I actually made a Google Form for this… don’t judge 😂)

Hey Reddit! So… I thought it would be funny (and maybe a little serious) to open up applications for the role of Girlfriend. Don’t worry, it’s not a job interview—more like a chance to laugh, vibe, and maybe find someone cool.

What you get if you apply:

  • A boyfriend who shares memes at 2 AM 🌚
  • Someone who will sing Secondhand Serenade off‑key just for you 🎶
  • Free fries… sometimes. 🍟
  • A loyal Netflix binge partner 📺

What I’m looking for:

  • Someone who laughs at my corny jokes (mandatory).
  • Willing to share fries (negotiable).
  • Karaoke partner (bonus points if you scream the lyrics).
  • Chill, fun, and genuine vibes.

Perks of dating me:

  • I’ll send you good morning texts (with memes attached).
  • I’ll let you win arguments… occasionally.
  • I’ll pretend to like cats if you’re a cat person 🐱.
  • I’ll bring Jollibee spaghetti to the table 🍝.

👉 Apply here: https://forms.gle/3ZY7MAHAKxtf5eBp7

Hala 27 na akoooo HAHAHAHAHA diko alam bat 25 yan 🤣

And also dw I will delete your pictures 🙏🏻

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u/No_Bake_7427 — 4 days ago

29 [F4M] Can I dedicate my fave love song to you?

I’m just a girl in a world.. 🎶

The hopeless romantic in me is excited to share this thing called life with someone ✨ I want to be more intentional in dating. I'll be straight to the point: I date with intention. If you're unsure about what you want or you’re not into anything serious, respectfully, please step aside.

About me:
5’2”, thicc muscular build (muscle mommy jk)
From the South
Current hobby is lifting weights (crossfit, powerlifting, weightlifting). But I’m also into water sports like swimming and freediving
Adventurous and outdoorsy. I like going on nature trips, and I prefer the beach
Not really into astrology but I’m a capricorn-aquariius cusp. MBTI is ISFJ-T.
Saktong religous lang, catholic but naniniwala rin sa plans ng universe for me

About you:
Around 27-35
Cute and taller than me
Knows how to converse and communicate
Please be a gymrat jk or has sn active lifestyle
NON-NEGOTIABLE!! Single and never married. Walang anak and obviously walang girlfriend or asawa!!
Not an avoidant, not emotionally unavailable

💌 Let's make this fun! DM me with a cute intro about yourself + a life advice/quote that stuck with you

❌ I don’t reply to dry DMs btw. Yung boring na hi/hello 👎🏼

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u/madumbpb — 2 days ago

21 [F4M] maybe it's finally my turn

hii! i haven't really dated in a while, but i think i'm finally ready to start dating again HAHAHA. not really looking to rush into anything, i'd rather just get to know someone, go on a few dates, and see if we actually click.

a little about me:

• from QC

• 5'4, curvy and chinita

• studying in the Big 4 🐯

• i bake and cook a lot, so loving food is definitely a plus HAHAHA

• i love animals, especially dogs... i have 8 of them, so they're basically part of the package

• i love coffee, movies, gaming, sponty trips, road trips, and exploring new places

• i LOVE long walks, so you better like walking too HAHAHA. i usually walk or jog around UPD

• i'm pretty talkative once i get comfortable, and i love conversations that actually go somewhere

hopefully you:

• taller than me

• respectful and knows how to communicate

• can actually hold a conversation and isn't afraid to be straightforward

• likes food because there's a very high chance i'll want to feed you something i made

• loves animals, especially dogs

• family-oriented (non-nego for me!)

• genuinely looking to get to know someone and see where things go

if you're interested, send me an intro and tell me one thing you really love about yourself because i wanna know what you're most proud of :)

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u/abaeros — 2 days ago
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39 [M4F] This time it will be sweeter.

Majority of us has learned from our past relationships and would know better now. We are more emotionally mature and knows what we want in life. I'm hoping na ganun ka dun so if ever, this time will be sweeter and better than our past mistakes.

Definitely not looking for anything casual. I've been out of the saddle for so long because work got in a way so if makikipag date uli, I would prefer something meaningful and long lasting.

I can give my best effort when trying to get to know each other. So sana ganun ka rin. If dry ka makipagusap and wouldn't really want to converse, please don't bother.

About me:

I know and respect that some people would prefer someone with a car so uunahan ko na. I don't have one because I work from home and and everything is near my place so I don't really need it to move around. So I already disposed of it as I find it a liability lang.

Active gym goer and very fit

Plays playstation if I wanna destressed or watch movies/series.

An anime fan

I work GY

From QC

Has a weird sense of humor but I can be funny pagtiisan mo lang yung mga sablay na 😃 joke

The goal is to travel as much as I can this year

Living alone and can host if we want a canle light dinner and just to hang via drinking/eating while watching

Has a very strict diet but can cook almost all filipino dishes (ipag luluto kita)

About you:

Fit and has an active lifestyle. Doesn't necessraily mean you are a gym rat but you are doing an activity to stay slim (Kilala ko sarili ko and I don't get attracted to someone chubby no matter how beautiful) Preference lang po, sorry na!

it's a plus if you work GY too so we can chat/call while working but not required

QC din sana or somewhere really near to lessen the hassle of meeting/dating.

Not dry kausap and willing to put in the effort to get to know each other.

If pasok sa preference mo and criteria, slide me a DM!

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u/No_Stock_196 — 3 days ago

25 [M4F] 6ft Gymrat Softie Looking for his Baddie 😎

hi everyone!

it's been awhile since my last date and I was hoping i can find my baby here. one of my non-negos before moving forward is a meet up in person cos idw to be catfished sayang lang din sa time.

i'm really easygoing and i'd love to make you laugh every single time :)

here's some stuff about me:

6ft Tall 💂🏻
FIT - broad shoulders, gyms everyday & hits 10k steps too
big 3 graduate 💙 - uaap athlete 🏀
working pro & has a business 💰
clean & mabango 🫧
hindi seloso - as long as u're all mine
discreet 🤫

about you hopefully 🥳

Fit / Slim / Petite / Curvy in the right places
cute / pretty / chinita 😍
around my age (not over 30 please 🙂‍↔️)
hopefully nearby lang (can make sundo if ever)

let's see where this goes 😘

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u/bluechampion11 — 3 days ago

32 [F4M] Maybe this is worth a shot

Dating apps haven’t really worked for me, so trying this instead.

I'm 32F, 5'1", slim. My weekdays are spent working from home on the night shift, while my weekends usually involve either planning my next trip or recovering from one. I love being outdoors, traveling or just exploring somewhere new but I also genuinely enjoy slow days at home with my cats, a good movie, and absolutely no plans. I'm also a Christian, and I appreciate the simple things in life.

I'm not the loudest person in the room, and I probably won't be the one carrying small talk. But if we click, conversations tend to happen effortlessly.

I'm here because I'd like to meet someone who's ready for something meaningful. Someone kind, emotionally mature, and genuine. I'm usually drawn to guys around 30–35, taller than me, preferably moreno, cute, with good sense of humor. I'd be happy to exchange photos once we've talked.

If you're around around Metro Manila, and think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me about something you're excited for this year. (Please don’t just say Hi!)

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u/eloise94 — 3 days ago

25 [F4M] | Not looking for anything serious or whatever happens, happens 😆 I’m just here to go on casual dates and have fun :)

posting this again heheh

About me:

- 5’2
- wavy hair
- curvy
- currently into weightlifting
- has multiple ear piercings, even a belly piercing :3
- psych grad and a business owner
- i love baking!!! if you’re a sweet tooth, we’ll get a long together lol i’m tooting my own horn, but every person i gave my baked goods has told me i need to make a business out of it bc it’s that good 😝
- southie
- if music taste is important to you, i’m into indie rock, math rock, a little pop punk, hiphop, bedroom pop, yacht rock, shoegaze, indie rock, opm hiphop, synth pop, literally everything except country haha
- this maybe a deal breaker for some, but i have mental conditions like adhd 🤡 perks: pwd discount hahahaha

Looking for:

- 25+ (pass po sa mga 40-50s 😭)
- as long as you’re taller than me
- a car guy bc i’m tired of driving wahahah
- i prefer a guy with who wears glasses, pero kahit wala okay lang! haha

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u/Due-Steak1434 — 3 days ago

26 [F4M] looking for... softie, NGSB guy 🙈

Oh, meron pa ba nyan? HAHAHA. Kung wala, edisige dun nalang tayo sa cute. Direct na kasi wala akong time makipagbebehan🙂‍↔️

Tipong ready rin makipag exchange pics, di yung nahihiya hiya pa tas papaunahin ako kahit ako talaga nagtanong first. Kaloka.

Until 12am lang kasi may work tom. G!

About me:
Chinita (sabi nila)
co-owns a business (pero di pa mayaman)
Not a girly type eh
Not a makeup thing girl type (if that matters)

Preference:
Actually ung kaya nya dalhin sarili nya. Secured.
Someone na I can look up.
Attractive is one thing, respectful and family oriented guy is 🙌🏻

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u/angelina_awesome — 4 days ago

27 [F4M] Maybe I can try again?

Been through a pretty troubled past, and sometimes I wonder, did I give myself enough time to heal? Or am I just scared to try again?

I don't know. I've been on a few dates here and there, but nothing really worked out. Explored a bit too, thinking maybe I could enjoy something casual and just see where things go. But I guess I eventually realized that's really not what I want. I want something genuine.

Should I be scared of showing my vulnerable side? The clingy, sweet, and affectionate woman underneath the strong and independent aura people usually see in me? Because I know she's still there. Maybe I've just gotten too used to protecting her.

Four years single is a long time. Maybe long enough. So… maybe I can try again?

Though I know my situation isn't for everyone. We all have our preferences, and I respect that. I'm a mom, so if you're someone who doesn't want kids or prefers someone without them, then I'm probably not your woman, and that's completely okay.

Looks wise, I'd say I'm pretty decent, I guess? Haha. But not Marian Rivera type of decent, okay? Let's manage our expectations here. Hahaha.

You? Someone older than me, humble, and willing to share what life has taught him. Someone who's good at communicating because I don't want to keep guessing what you're thinking or feeling.

Also, I have this habit of smelling the guy I'm with 😂 so smelling good is definitely a plus. And please, be PATIENT because I'm a bit playful sometimes. I like messing around, especially when I'm already comfortable with you.

I'm looking for a slow burn kind of relationship. No need to rush or force anything. Let's take our time getting to know each other and let things unfold naturally. If we vibe, then good. Let's see where it takes us. If not, at least we tried.

Tell me something interesting about you? Something that would actually make me curious to know you more.

Waiting for you in my chatbox. 🙂

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u/sundaefriess — 4 days ago

32 [F4M] want to try dating younger guys in Manila !

32 F FIL-AM chubby/curvy build 5’2 height .
new to Manila , so sorry ENGLISH ONLY haha I’m still learning Tagalog . I’m in my cougar era with younger men, if you’re curious about dating older women or prefer just PM me .

I am located in Makati

NOT INTERESTED IN ONE NIGHTSTAND/HOOK UPS .

I am open to all type , chinito, Moreno . Also skinny guys are nice and cute so don’t be shy or insecure ! Let’s see if we can click ~

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u/Any_Worry3718 — 5 days ago

28 [M4F] Tired of being adult? You can be my baby instead

I’m looking for a Date or a Travel Buddy lets explore or staycation lang, any setup will do— sharing interests. You will be spoiled by me financially and physically

About you:
Hygienic is a must
Good Attitude / Friendly (Yapper/Madaldal)
Extrovert and Introvert are welcome
Near Metro Manila, Makati or Cavite
Normal BMI (plus points if active mag exercise)
Exclusive dating

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u/Pretty-Reality3163 — 4 days ago

24 [F4M] lf mag papatawa and tuguruan ako mag gym. serious slow burn

Hi looking for someone na I can talk with as constants muna and if it naturally blossoms then still g for itt. Let’s get to know each other online first and if we click, meeting up is an option.

—I value peace, chemistry, consideration, and ofc honesty& loyalty
-Binondo | 24f, 5’3, maputi, cute daw, normal bmi and recently subscribed sa gym to be toned.
-working for an intl bank in makati
-dlsu, if it matters?
-hobbies: cooking, traveling, hiking, going on long nature walks, taking pics and collecting cameras for fun
-No vices or any issues, I just casually drink if there’s an event like bdays or reunions
-most ppl in my circle say I give funny, caring, sweet girl vibes.
-seriously takes care of myself
-i prefer calls than messaging if im comfy na. Im kinda busy on weekdays so I’m not the type that sends gmorning gnight messages or kain na and etc. but quick update lang in the day and a proper convo is what I need at night

Abt u:
-single na walang anak, age 25-31 living around ncr or can go to me
-5’6 or above sana
-mature, matalino and gentleman
-not a dry texter
-normal bmi to slightly chubby basta leaning on a healthy lifestyle. ++bonus if u can teach me how to gym
-financially and emotionally stable
-sana extroverted, palaban or funny na maangas personality mo bc i wanna laughh
-hygienic, clean, didn’t have a hoe phase
-masculine face traits, biceps and wide shoulder traps are much appreciated ;)
-bonus if u have a car or a place

Will not entertain hi and hellos only, if you’ve read this part pls introduce urself as if it’s a resume on why u think we’ll vibe. while at it, drop the most funniest punch line u knoww 😆

Imk if u think we’ll vibe, dm!!

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u/Pumpypumkin — 5 days ago

26 [F4M] Okay universe, your turn!

Putting myself out here again to see if may chance ba talga ako magka jowa HAHAHA. Okay sooo I’m looking to meet someone genuine, intentional, and hopefully someone who actually wants to date—not just collect another talking stage.

about me:
26F
5’4
In med field
(was) an athlete
Pretty independent but definitely a softie when I like someone (lol!)

about you hmm, someone taller and older or around my age :)

See ya!

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u/gyunme — 4 days ago