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Saw a recent clip of Ved Lakshmi stating that "Robin has always been disrespectful to women around him and she knows of many such complaints against him".My question is "didn't you know that the guy was problematic AF since his own BB season? For someone who is conscious of what her son is exposed to and fears that seeing LGBTQ couples could influence young kids, didn't she see that Robin was too misogynistic to be friends with? Or did she need to be verbally and financially abused by him to see that? Ved Lakshmi was very unforgiving to Noora-Adhila but the same person tolerated Robin until he abused her. Like why such internalised misogyny? Same with Dilsha, she could see how Bleslee and Robin used to talk to other women but she conveniently sat with them but suddenly when she gets the wrath of their followers, she calls it unfair. Women who enable such toxic behaviour are as problematic as the ones who exhibit them.

When did it become "sassy,classy and queen behaviour" to be rude to others. I've noticed this from the time she pulled the "oh your diamond is small" on Aishwarya Mohanraj and I thought it must be an act. Now I know it's not. A genuinely secure woman would never attack another woman or get defensive the way she did with Rhea. Like how is this behaviour even mildly entertaining? She is just a lesser wild version of Rakhi Sawant. But Rakhi is playing to the gallery and she atleast has a great sense of humour. Mallika Sherawat is just an insensitive woman and far from a "feminist icon".

Raj Kundra looked like he came for the show to clean his image and show general audience how bad a liar he is. He also said that in the circle of shaq that " my wife keeps saying that I can't lie" right before he gets out. Like that coming from a guy who has been accused in all kind of cases is definitely the biggest lie. I feel everyone knew within that he is a traitor but no one wanted to openly admit it or give him too much importance which Apoorva ended up giving him and after that Apoorva wasn't even remotely right about any traitor.

It's hard for me to believe that Robin has any empathy, the way he let Dilsha and people who helped him like Shalu Peyad be mercilessly trolled and be thrown under the bus is good enough evidence. But what stood out to me is the way he abused that guy's mom who lend him money when Robin's mother was in the hospital. He clearly has all the signs of a narc and his hot and cold behaviour even with his friends seemed obvious through the voice messages. I hope that girl gets saved in time because that guy can destroy her if she decides to have a family with him. Just like Bala- Amrutha.

And now the guy is trying to get into politics, how is this guy even allowed to enter politics, what is his source of income? Why is he going around asking people for money when he has a successful wife and he comes from a financially well to do family? Any inside information?

Firstly to the ones that openly supported it, thank you and to the ones that stayed silent and will come up with "socially responsible movies", don't even try, no one is going to forget your silence.

Secondly, if you have to promote your movie without losing your dignity and if you have some respect for your craft, refuse promoting in on trash YouTube channels like Pearle Maaney's. People may watch her video but people go for the movie because they heardgood reviews/ they like the actors/they like the premise/to make out". As audience, very rarely will someone go for the movie, because "aa interview nalla fun aayrnu alle, apo korech cash pottich padathinu pokam". Her youtube channel is free entertainment, going for movies isn't. So please stop enabling such entitled self centred people to promote your movies, especially when they are a pain to watch. If the movie is good, people will watch without the promotions as well, malayalis aren't dumb.

Saw a post saying how Pearle has been witchhunted and attacked for just having an "opinion". Even previously Pearle Maaney had attacked Unni vlogs stating, "people have an issue when a woman gets successful that they feel the need to attack them".

So you believe in empowering women..

But Pearle,

-Weren't you the one that didn't believe in feminism and supported chauvinstic people like Rajith Kumar when he applied chilli on a woman contestant's eye's?

-Weren't you the one that thought it was okay to hit on a guy who was taken and decided to marry the guy later on?

Nextly,

-Weren't you the one who asked students to stop fighting but didn't ask the government to start acting?

-Weren't you the one who said you get no negative comments and you like hearing criticism as that helps you grow but switched off the comments section when it mattered the most?

If all that matters to you is money and international trips with family, that's okay but don't pretend to be the "good, kind girl next door who is apolitical". Don't fool the people. Stop lying and be yourself. Maybe Ranjini Haridas will have a few tips or so.

Dumbkri is the perfect example of why everyone is not eligible to be a parent. The woman who is supposed to be more empathetic than a Ranjini Haridas, because she has a child whose future she needs to lookout for, imagine if the child decides to educate himself and learn and not be like his mother and then the exam paper he prepares for, gets leaked and his one year preparation gets wasted because someone did it for money and the government instead of acknowledging it, is defending it? Would you side with the government or with your son's hardwork?

It's guaranteed that the woman will regret all of this badly and her son will be one teaching her the toughest lessons in life. Be it how she tortured people through bullying, spoke shit of her own family members,in-laws and now speaking against the kids in this country who did not harm to you.

It's all coming back Diya.

Sometimes I feel that all of us hustle to get that kind of money that these influencers and actors have gotten in such a short span, a commoner would struggle to get that money working in a company and even if they do, it comes with a lot of stress and mental health issues and the risk of losing it anytime. While these influencers have gotten everything they wanted, yet the silence of these people on basic humanity and how the students are being beaten blue and black surprises me, im sure each one of them must be aware and scared of their future, theirs kid's future, and yet they choose to stay silent. Why? What's the point of making all the money and having stability if your tongue is tied down and your vocal cords are not working. All the money and no freedom to voice your own opinion because you may lose everything that you got? Is that a truly happy life??

Secret agent is busy being an uncle and dissing a girl on a latent show but he still hasn't said a word about the protest or how Ranjini (a woman) has had the spine to speak up and raise her voice.

Pearle, you have 2 daughters FFS, someday they are going to be very ashamed of you and all the money in the world cannot buy you their respect.

Diya Krishna - same as above but worse because karma is a bitch.

Has anyone ever filed a complaint against her for all the shit she is spewing on social media, specially against women? Her latest video about Daya Sujith (Manju Pillai's daughter), where she just goes on a rant criticising her photoshoot outfit and asks her to wear to and walk in public, so that men can grope her and do worse things. Like when did anyone get the licence to talk so much of BS and get away. From where is this POS getting her audacity?

After watching Sikri's latest video, I kind of empathise with them because Amoomakri seems like a vile, abusive and narcissistic person from the get go. Her crying in Tanvi's video but switching immediately when she says about how Akri said "aa naari simiyod njan samsarikyilla enn aval parenjitundello", looks like a person who isn't that innocent and knows how to play to the gallery (like a narc,but hey let the therapist decide that). Having had a narc grandfather myself, it's easy to understand how frustrating it can be to have one like this in your family.

However, I also know that would be the last person in my family I would choose to take on a trip with and pretend to be happy with and post a vlog on (if I were an influencer). And anyone that chooses to do that and project a certain image of a "caring daughter/grandaughter" while abusing them in private messages is as problematic as the grandmother and is doing the same thing as her.

The grandmother didn't have access to therapy and is too old at this point, but what about the daughter and the grandaughter? What's stopping them? In addition to this, the comment of a bully victim on Sikri's video is a strong proof that they are a family of narcs and attention seekers, there is no way that a single person is escaping that including Kriku. Most politicans are the biggest narcs themselves, it's just that they are good at masking it.

Ahaana should know that her owning up her part and acknowledging her mistake of putting down someone else's trauma is the only way she is going to garner some respect, not just of the audience but also of the future kids she has. Karma is a boomerang and kids actually are the biggest package of karma one can have in this lifetime.