what do yall recommend?
not looking for relationship advice or anything like that, just plainly what the title says :)
My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch for the last couple of months, it went from super loving and reassuring to now I only receive that stuff in person mostly (we are an hour apart so), and every few weeks he freaks out and tries to break up with me as he “feels stuck” and will say many hurtful things that contradict what he has told me previously, and when I get there to finish the break up im always met with “im sorry i didnt mean it it feels like i get split into two”, “i dont know why but i push you away”, “i want to do better for you”, etc. I just want to stop this random pushing me away and pulling me closer, while trying to recreate what we had in the beginning, as this relationship was very loving and healthy until i realized he was a certain kind of attachment.
thanks!