Im in a long distance relationship almost 2y ago (im a 32M she a 32F), next year we plan to be living together again, but the trust between us is downhill due to the long distance…what should we do?
Long story short, we both moved to Europe and after a year here she had to go back to our country due to Visa issues. At that exact same time i got a good job offer, got the Work permit and stayed (this was agreed because it was an offer i couldn’t refuse). Ive stayed until now because im going to get my citizenship in 8-12 months aprox. But the distrust between us has gotten to a no return point (i guess), she is now questioning every time she sees i got a new follower on IG, not trusting my explanations or anything. And besides all that, all the LD complications, when we are together physically we barely fight, our chemistry is the strrongest ive ever experienced, i really love her and i think she does too. But now i just feel we are just hurting each other and forcing us into something, and sadly i just cant resign my job NOW and go back. We are from a “3rd world country” and getting a european citizenship can be life changing, for both of us. But she doesnt care that much, she only wants to marry (me too, but not as passionate as her) and live wherever we can. In the end, i feel i wont meet anybody better than her, i dont want to lose her, i think she feels the same… i dont know what to do