How to avoid women who fake excessive interest?
Title says most of it.
I (M31) Went on what I thought was a good first date last night. My date (F33) was having fun was genuinely interested in asking follow up questions about relationshipy things and even joked about what kind of girl I was looking for! At the end of the date, she kissed me with this really cute giggle that made it seem like she was elated.
24 hours later. Radio silence.
Probably happens on like 1/3rd of my dates now, especially after winter for some reason although I have not changed strategies. So, I am wondering if anyone else has workshopped ways to filter them out.
To be clear, I am not upset that someone is not interested, or that I thought they were more interested than they are. I’m upset when people go out of their way to seem MUCH more interested than they actually are. It’s getting to the point where if someone shows excessive interest, I’m just assuming they are going to vanish which makes me worried I will miss out on someone who is genuinely interested!
How can I avoid these women? Anyone found any ways to suss this out before wasting time and energy (and also a date with someone more emotionally mature)?
I’ve noticed they are more common in certain groups, but I don’t want to write off entire groups of women. I did that when I first started dating again and it made me ignore a lot red flags.