GF[22F] has no ambitions, friends or hobbies and just leans on me [21M] is it time to break up?
So we have been together for about 2 years. The first year we lived together at my place in our hometown. She worked a part time few days a week and i was a full time mechanic (50+ hours a week). In the beginning we would socialize a lot and spend a lot of time with my friends. My friend group is big social drinkers so we would get together at my place often (every or every other weekend). She didn't have any friends but said she didn't mined and like hanging with my friends. As time went on she liked it less and less and wanted to spend more 1 on 1 time. I obliged and would spend less and less times with my friends. In the end it got to the point where they said "they missed me" and that i was "on a leash".
After a year i had to move for school and she came along and we moved in together. She got a new job but but now even less hours and complains working longer the 5 hour days. I quickly found some new friends through school. She still has not found any other friends and just want to spend time with me the two of us. If i suggest going hanging out with my friends or heading home for the weekend since its just an quick hour drive, she'll come up with some excuses or just get mad. If i go out without her shell ignore me and tries to give me a bad concise.
I just feel like shes got nothing of her own just wants to spend time with me and be with me. I just wish she would have mot stuff she could do that didn't involve me and we could spend some more time apart. And that she would be more of her own person insted of just always logging behing me.
About a year ago she had some medical troubles causing us to stop having sex, from my understanding it's getting better but she nevers seems to be attracted to me or want me, and i don't really get attracted to her either. Kinda feels like there is no spark at all.
Although it might seem obvious where different in a lot of ways and dont really match i see a lott of good in her and love her to bits. Sometimes shes better and i feel like shes trying to improve but it kinda isn't enough. Just so sad to me it doesn't feel like she senses anything is wrong and think our relationship is perfect. She tells me all the time that shes sooo afraid of losing me and loves me so much.
Now where moving home for the summer and i feel like its now or never, her dad's been sick so we have been visiting hime in the hospital every week but hes better now and moved home. She's gotten a temp summer job at her old job so i think she can get her old job back. I've beasically tried to set her up for success if i decided to end it.
tldr;
My gf doesn't want to spend time with my friends and hates socializing. She doesn't like to work or have any ambition of becoming anything. She just wants so spend time with me and nothing else. We dont have sex. I've tried to set her up for sucsess as good as posible if we would break up. But she doesn't see anything wrong with our relationship and think its all good.