So me (20M) and my gf (18F) been dating for couple weeks now and finally thinking of having sex, we’re both still virgins and not well educated when it comes to sexual stuff, specially me who came from religious household. We’re trying to be responsible and careful as possible, so our biggest fear is doing something leads to pregnancy since we’re both too young and not ready financially to have a child. I know there’s plenty of ways to avoid that (condoms, birth control, ex…) but i heard that even by doing that there’s still a chance of pregnancy happening in some cases which is the reason i’m kinda scared, i don’t think it will be comfortable for me as long as there’s a slight chance of it happening, so i was thinking is there something we can do that literally has 0% chance? We’re very attracted to each other and only having kisses for now. Is it better to only having making out sessions (helping each other finish) for now to take things slowly before having actual sex ? Also what’s the best way to protect ourselves if we decide to have sex?
For context we’re in canada and i heard abortion is legal here. Please any advice will be appreciated