M24 I'm having doubts about 3-year relationship with F23
TLDR: I'm moving in with my gf in 5 months or so but I'm having serious doubts, since I'm a very ambitious person, and I wanted someone as ambitious by my side. She doesn't care to have a very simple life. She doesn't have interested in the things I want to talk about, so there are no meaningful conversations, no deep talks.
Also no flirting cause she's not into it, which I kinda already accepted. Maybe because I got to comfortable.
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Like the TLDR said, we're planning on moving together, we've dated for almost 3 years, I broke up twice, but she always promised me she would change, and she did in a couple of things. But I don't feel we're compatible, her libido is very low, she doesn't like to talk about nsfw stuff, no flirting, and mine is very high.
We only watch movies she likes, because she hates anything with violence, action, or 99% of the movies out there.
We don't have long conversations about anything.
And my problem and why I'm getting doubts is:
In our current situation we only see each other twice per month, for like 3 days in a row. We don't talk during the day because her job doesn't allow her.
She has a difficult personality, my job is really stressful already, I run 3 businesses, and when I talk with her I would like to relax, not stress more.
I think I would like someone by my side, with higher ambitions, with whom I could talk to everyday about work, or whatever, like being able to support ourselves, be interested in the same things, I feel like I'm alone. Even though I'm in this relationship.
We broke up twice already (I did), for a number of reasons, everytime, she cried and were able to turn my mind around, by promising to change, etc. And she did but when I talk to her about this she throws in my face that I'm accusing her of not having changed, and tries to guilt trip me.
She changed, but very very little, has very little impact. Even though we talked about this before.
So I have serious doubts, that if we move in it will be any better, I think it will be far worse. What's your advice