u/Baklol_Bagula

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Life changed alot after I got married.

Just like you all i won the hell lottery and was born from the womb of a narc mother. Life was definitely horrible in childhood but you never know how horrible you had until you see what normal was like, when other children got love without expecting anything in return.

* At the time of getting married my oldest gc sister literally called me a servant dog in front of everyone and narc mom took her side. This was the moment i stopped talking to her for good. Its been 4 years now since i talked to her even if we live in the same apartment building just one floor apart.
* Instead of asking for forgiveness or saying sorry she has done everything to make my life miserable when she saw i was giving my wife the same care which i used to give to her. When i had a fight with my wife she saw that as an opportunity and told me that we should forcefully feed my wife abortion pills and then we will get rid of her.
*When wife got pregnant mother and sister threw me and my wife out of apartment and we both had to buy everything from scratch. There were days when my wife was hungry in the initial days after we moved out but i was just waiting for my salary. Even though parents lived one floor above no one ever came to ask us our well being.
* when my son was born she left my 4 days old son all alone in a 50 bed NICU ward because she wanted a break.
* Now that things are finally better she is putting all the negative stuff in my father's ears to turn him against me. Everytime when she would feed negative stuff in my father's head he would turn abusive towards me and would make mine and my wife's life hell.
* Today i finally took a stand after years of abuse and this wh*re of a mother took this opportunity to tell my dad that this is how abusive i will become towards both of them in their old days. And the final and last person in the house who i used to get along is also against me now.
I am done... just feeling exhausted... mentally,physically,emotionally. I sometimes wonder what sin i must have done that i was born from the womb of such a toxic creature.

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u/Baklol_Bagula — 14 days ago