u/BalanceBruh

tl;dr

32M from India, trying to get into dating more seriously.

I’ve had a couple of situationships but nothing proper. I got a decent job with some EMIS , looks average, a bit chubby but working on it.

What I’m confused about is timing. A lot of advice(online) says to ask someone out within a few days, but here people are more cautious.

If I ask too early, does it come off weird? But if I wait, conversations just fade.

Also, any tips on setting up a decent profile? Not trying to be flashy, just want to come across normal.

How do you guys usually handle this?