AITAH or is my SIL just stupid
I (30F) and my husband (31M) have a SIL (26F)...my husbands brother's wife, who in my opinion is incredibly stupid and selfish. Here's a little back story my BIL and SIL live 2 hours away from us, close but we have to plan visits. My SIL for the past 4 years that my husband and I have been together...has asked my husband to pick up things she has bought off of Facebook market place. For awhile it was a big problem, like she never asked if he was able to or never planned with him BEFORE buying the item if he could do it. She ASSUMES he will do whatever for her and he allows her to take advantage of him. Mind you she doesn't live that far, 2 hours in the USA isn't a big deal, NOR do I understand why she can't buy someone else's used shit in the city she lives in. Last year her and I were pregnant at the same time. She asked my husband to pick up a car seat from FB marketplace, he didn't tell me, AND used my car to pick it up. So i found said car seat which I thought was for our baby in my trunk. BOY WAS I WRONG. Him and I got into it, he felt horrible and told her no more FB market place picks up. I had enough of it. And she hasn't asked since...until this stupid bullshit.
Fast forward to 2 weeks ago. In my state you can have your Medical card, which my husband, BIL and SIL all have. My BIL's birthday was over Mother's Day weekend. So my SIL texts my husband the weekend before asking him to pick a large order of w**d, from a buddy of my BIL's. This buddy happens to own a dispo and happens to live in my city. 2 hours away from my BIL and SIL. Once again she did not ask my husband if he could pick this order up BEFORE she placed it. And AGAIN she ASSUMED he would. Mind you I am pregnant again and very close to delivering and we just moved. We aren't going out of town any time soon. Plus my husband wasn't going to leave me alone, while my parents were on vacation, to drive 4 hours to drop off a big box of w**d. My husbands parents live in the same town as us, and they are wonderful people. They DO NOT have their med card. My dumb SIL had the crazy idea to asked my husband to sneak a box of w**d into his parents car and have them bring the drugs to her when they went to visit their son for his birthday.....why she couldn't pick it up herself I have no idea. BUT if we did that....we would have been lying to my in-laws (who we have a beautiful relationship with) and they would be committing a FELONY!!!!! They aren't stupid they know what w**d smells like, and they would NEVER trust us again we we lied to them. We told her no, for so many reason....but she pushed. Finally she came clean to her husband and told him about the gift, and they figured out a different plan. AITA for no longer liking or trusting my SIL?! Please tell me other people find this thought process of her's to be as stupid as I do?! I can't believe she thought this was a good idea. Clearly she didn't have the courage to ask our MIL and FIL herself...they would have told her HELL NO. I really don't like this women now and don't wish to be around her if I can help it.