How does your job affect confidence and dating?
It makes no sense for me to look for a partner, I lost my confidence after a rough year and I dont think it's reasonable to expect a stranger to gable on me for 2-3 years till im back on track again,.. Idk, what do you guys think?
The way I see it right now is that I should get comfortable being alone for a while.
(Context)
Economy did its magic,
The industry I went to a university for and already worked in for 3 years shut down. It's just raw bad luck. Im watching the same happen to my friends and colleagues.
My ex broke up with me right as this happened, i dont blame her it was gonna end at some point. We just didn't match as people.
This forced me to move back to my parents at 25, no stable job, no outlook on career, freshly out of a breakup, basically begging for an entry position to stack shelves in a grocery store with a bachelor's and 4 languages.
I feel like it's becoming more and more unreasonable to feel confident. It's hard to justify to myself, and if I can't do that I feel like im not equipped to look for a partner.
Confidence and self worth are a pretty core thing, and if I cant show up knowing im happy to just be me, its gonna be felt by anyone worth dating.