u/BassBackground2549

My medical abortion failed, thought it was retained tissue but pregnancy continued. I had 3 days to process I was pregnant before my surgical abortion. Almost 16 weeks.

I am distraught, I can’t stop crying and I’m feeling so overwhelmed and confused. Grief, guilty, lonely, misunderstood. My heart hurts and I don’t know how to process it, for those 3 days I felt and held my bump, it was so sudden to try and understand what was going on .. I’m so upset

I had a medial abortion at 9.5 weeks, it failed and I knew I was still pregnant or something wasn’t right, either remaining tissue ect. I called the clinic with my reoccurring symptoms and they said wait 3 weeks for the test.

I couldn’t get an appointment quickly, I had to wait 5 weeks before getting an appointment after the initial failed MA.

I just found out yesterday the MA failed, I’m now almost 15 weeks and and have a surgical scheduled in 2 days time.

This entire time I was looking at post abortion symptoms instead of pregnancy symptoms.. I’m in complete shock and don’t know how to process all off this ???