I’m looking for assisted living/memory care facility recommendations for my mother who is recovering from an aneurysm. She needs 24/7 hands on care in a place that will help her become mobile and hopefully independent again. Please send recommendations. Thank you in advance 🙏
and while i love her and want her to be as comfortable as possible during this time. I also can’t help but feel resentful that she had no plan in place. I’m realizing her plan was for me to handle everything. No savings, no trust, no will. I’ve been scrambling to take care of all her assets. I’m anxious, losing sleep, and losing money as I keep having to take time off of work to manage every doctor’s appointment, coordinate care, and be there by her bedside as present as possible as the doom of impending paperwork and debt looms over my head.
I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and the fact that people have children for the sole purpose of taking care of them when they’re older is cruel beyond belief. So the next time someone asks who is going to take care of me when I’m older I’m going to say: my doctors, my nurses, my lawyer, and my carefully saved nest egg that pays them all from my selfish childfree lifestyle!