Don’t think becoming conventionally attractive after losing the weight will motivate you to keep it off
I lost 40lbs about a year and a half ago and I became very attractive. I wouldn’t say I looked like Megan fox or Adriana Lima but I was definitely an objective 7 or 8 out of 10. I loved the new attention I was getting and I would literally get complimented everyday or so. I loved this and didn’t want to lose it but as soon as I started eating at maintenance my body’s hunger signals went crazy. This whole time that I’ve been gaining it back I’ve been trying to fight it but to no avail. You need to have a solid plan about how you’re gonna come off of your weightloss journey and if you know you had binging habits or just bad habits around food don’t assume that they’re gone or that you can rationalize it out. If you notice that you’re starting the bad habits again try to get it tamed in whatever way you can even if that means having to spend some money because now I just hate knowing there’s this better version of me that feels un achievable. To be fair I’m still attractive but it’s not as much before. The worst part about this is when family asks why I would purposely let myself go when I used to be at the top and it feels insulting because I I so much to try and not gain it but I did. I can’t even go visit some people I met during that time because they’re gonna notice I gained weight. Also, stay humble