u/Beautiful_Wallaby543

Having to say goodbye to my homebirth plans. Feeling very sad about it.

My first born was born at home, super easy labor and delivery. Basically textbook perfect. Imagine my surprise when I was diagnosed this week with gestational hypertension that was (but thankfully seems to be improving with medication) close to preeclampsia.

I am listening to the midwife and doctors, but am aiming to try to go into labor without induction if my labs and pressures remain stable. I will be giving birth in the hospital regardless of whether or not I’m induced, which is making me very nervous about the “cascade of interventions.”

Mostly I needed to vent my disappointment, but I was also hoping to hear stories from folks who’ve been in my shoes. Especially if you were able to go on to have a first or another homebirth later.

Thank you 🩵

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u/Beautiful_Wallaby543 — 13 days ago

How many of you were homeschooled yourselves? If

If not, what are your reasons for homeschooling? Really I’m just curious. I was not homeschooled, but had a few homeschooled friends and plan to homeschool my 4 year old and my baby on the way.
Our local district has had decreasing math and reading scores since I was in school, and there’s been 3 school shooting threats just in the time since my son was born. On top of that, I’m a chef and I work second shift. I worked hard to get to my position and I don’t want to sacrifice my career or my participation in my children’s childhoods. My four year old does some preschool work books and we go to a lot of museums so far, but I’d like to get him into sports or music or something soon.

Thanks for reading!

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u/Beautiful_Wallaby543 — 5 months ago