Is there something wrong with my father or am I overreacting
So I (19F) am stuck with my fathers comments and actions that drive me insane and he never takes accountability for it. for example if I have to walk past him in public through a slightly close walkway he will very loudly make incest references and I can’t tell if he’s just trying to humiliate me like any other dad would.
However more recently he’s been doing things like tugging on my necklaces and trying to treat me like a dog, I will admit I did punch him which I do regret, however because it’s in public surrounded by strangers there will be comments asking him if he wants their dogs leash for me. I of course don’t like this and I mentally clock out until I get home where I start crying. most of the time he just does it because I didn’t want to get out of the car. I have an undiagnosed illness where on bad days I can’t walk properly, my migraines are ten times worse, and I want to throw up my organs, he does not care.
I can’t tell if I’m overreacting and this is just how fathers are but I am genuinely scared he’ll do more than just incest jokes and pinning me to whatever the nearest surface.