u/BedtimeRushHottie

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Everybody‘s getting married

So many people in my congregation are getting married and its FREAKING me out. Considering they are all under 21 and have not even been with their partners for more than one year!

I don’t understand how JWs in my congregation have no problem with this whatsoever. Do they just accept that all these people are horny af and can’t wait to have sex – thats what I assume is the reason they get married so young???

It‘s totally freaking me out because this is just insanity. I don’t believe that JWs with 21 can determine their partner for life considering most can’t even talk about intimate things like their libidos and wants etc. – without a chaperone. All of this is just doomed to fail if you have no grounds for communication. I also know of many in my circuit who married young and got divorced in just under 5 years.

Is it like this too in your congregations and is everybody just acting as if it’s completely normal??

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u/BedtimeRushHottie — 16 days ago