AITA For being upset my s/o went against her word and got more food for herself.
This sounds dumb that it’s about food, but I feel like it means more than just the food.
Fiancé 22F asked if I 21M wanted food on her way home, she said “not dinner, just a sandwich or something” so i said ill have one too. she comes home with sandwich and a side for herself, along with my sandwich. Im not upset i didnt get a side too, im upset because she went against what she said. Isn’t a sandwich and onion rings a meal? she didn’t get the drink but that’s still a meal. i try just talking with her saying “im not upset, just let me know next time i guess.”
she then yells “i just wanted onion rings” and throws her food at the couch going everywhere and storms off into the bedroom. She just keeps yelling i just wanted onion rings. She shortly after comes back out to pick everything up but doesn’t say anything, throws it all away, and goes back into the bedroom. I feel like things get blown out of proportion and I have to walk on eggshells when I talk to her. i’m always trying to reassure her and take deep breaths together like we’ve done for a while now, but lately it’s been making her more upset when I suggest taking a second to breathe before we continue talking.
I’m going crazy thinking im doing something wrong and i just have to walk away and suggest taking a 15 or so minute break because the conversation isn’t going anywhere. it just keeps looping going over the same subjects we’re already arguing about. I feel like there’s more going on because conversations like these are happening more often, what seems like something minor to me is major for her.
I really feel like the conversation did not need to even become an argument at all. Am I doing something wrong? I re read everything to make sure im really telling the truth and not leaving out anything that could’ve made her this upset.