Anyone around their 20s who likes to go out and do stuff?! Night life, drinks, beach trips, anything?! I’m a 20 year old girl and feel like I can barely find anyone my age who actually wants to go out😩
Does anyone else just feel chronically misunderstood? I will be pointing out facts or logic — even about me — like for example, before I got diagnosed with ASD I would talk about how I always felt different and I would use facts to back that up like how I was the only one in the classroom starting from second grade that didn’t have a consistent friend and I would give other examples, but people would respond with reassurance or emotional based things when I’m describing facts so they’ll respond and tell me everybody feels different or everybody feels misunderstood which I try to correct them and tell them other facts about my life, which then they think I’m not listening when no, I am listening It’s just that this is a pattern that I’ve picked up on and that’s why I’m saying this. It didn’t come from nowhere
What people do is deny my reality which is the number one thing that I cannot stand and it happens to me constantly. They think that what I’m saying is coming from a place of emotion when no, I’m annoyed that you’re denying my logic and what I’m saying (not even just denying it; denying it and then replacing what I said with a completely different thing and then acting like I don’t understand or I’m missing something)
It feels like pointing out the sky is blue after I did all the research and then ppl saying no you’re you’re only thinking that because your eyes are hurting or bc you wear glasses when in reality, I looked at the facts and the evidence and then I use that to form my conclusion. It just feels like constant gaslighting and it drives me crazy