If someone gave you a billion dollars is there an amount that you would feel would pay off all your debts, give you the lifestyle you want for the rest of your (finite) life and leave enough to your kids to be a start off cost? How much money would you have left over?
* For you specifically. This is the actual survey
Everywhere online I constantly see that I should wait to have sex with a man. That my “body count” should be low. That if I’ve slept with more than 2 men in the 6 years I’ve been an adult I’m “ran through” and “for the streets”. Despite this every man I personally meet expects sex for the barest amount of effort. This isn’t an all men post. This is a genuine question of what women are supposed to do in this situation.
“I went on a first date with a guy I met on Tinder last night. He seemed sweet and funny when we were texting. He took me to a fancy restaurant. Everything was going fine until he dropped me off.
We pulled up to my house and he immediately tried to invite himself inside. Said we could keep the date going with drinks at my place. I told him no. First date, not happening. He kept pushing. Said he just wanted to see my space. Said he wanted to know what my bedroom looked like. Would not let it go. I finally got him to leave by saying I was tired and had an early morning shift for work. That part was true.
I woke up to seven texts sent between 3:42 and 4:14 in the morning.
First he was thinking about me all night. Then he was disappointed we couldn't do more. Then he wanted to spend the night with a pretty girl like me. Then he was unhappy with how the night ended. Then he called me a bitch for not letting him in after such a nice night. Then he said if he'd known I wasn't going to give him anything he wouldn't have wasted his time and money on me. Then he said he knew where I lived now, so I should probably be nicer.
All sent while I was asleep in my own bed after telling him no.
At 11:21 AM he woke up and sent an apology. Said he was drunk and didn't remember any of it. Didn't mean a word. Said I was overreacting if I was upset. Then immediately asked if I wanted to see a movie so he could make it up to me, smiley face and all. Said he could pick me up since he already knew my address.
I haven't answered. I feel sick to my stomach. The fact that he could go from calling me a bitch, saying I wasted his time, and mentioning he knows where I live at 4 AM to acting like nothing happened with one "I was drunk" text is somehow scarier than the texts themselves.
I strongly believe that calling a girl a b*tch at 4 AM because she wouldn't sleep with you on the first date makes you an absolute psycho.
Am I wrong for blocking him and never speaking to him again?”
A desperate request for advice on this singular, personal issue and not an evaluation of the entire gender. I get being a man sucks because of false accusations but being a woman sucks because of this situation happening again and again