Image 1 — First chain!
Image 2 — First chain!

First chain!

I’d like to thank everyone for the feedback! Within the short time after a bit of stalling by watching tv I was able to make my first chain! It’s a bit wonky I think, but I think that’s because I’m currently trying to figure out how to keep the yarn taught enough while holding the working yarn and tail end of the yarn. Essentially I took the advice, and made sure the hook end of my crochet hook pointed down and not to me when I pulled it through the loop, as well as experimented with different grips and found one where I was more comfortable being able to hold the tail end of the yarn without reflexively letting go of the tail end when it was time to pull it through the starting loop (still can’t remember the proper terminology)

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 10 days ago

Advice for starting a yarn over

Hello everyone, I’m a beginner crocheting and I’m learning! I started trying to practice yesterday, then decided to sleep after failing to practice a chain too many times. I started again today, and every time I try to do a yarn over I can’t pull it through my starting loop (I can’t remember the proper terminology now, sorry 😅). I’ve gotten a bit better at being able to catch the yarn on my hook with angling my hook down after doing yarn over. But now the issue is the starting loop keeps flipping which untwists my yarn over when I try to pull it through. I’m not 100% sure how to deal with it or what I’m doing with my fingers. My grip on the hook I’ve trained would be the fork hold, and the butter knife hold. As for the yarn I loop it around my pinkie and under my ring and middle finger to pinch the project. I honestly just don’t know what I’m doing wrong tho or what I should try to adjust. Maybe I just have to keep practicing because it’s a dexterity issue because I always reflexively let go as well. I’d love some tips!

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 10 days ago

Introducing Lilo!

Hello everyone! My last post raised a lot of valid questions! It made me think I never did an introduction to my dog so I thought I’d do that for much needed information as well as just building a cozy little community corner to post about my dog here.

Important note! In this post, as well as all my previous posts I refer to Lilo as mine, but she isn’t mine. She’s my mom’s dog! While I don’t plan on changing how I address her in my posts especially because I am the primary caretaker and trainer of h er besides money related issues I felt it was very important to clarify due to it limiting what I am able to do with Lilo as I am fresh out of high school with no job (I am still trying to land one 😅) and as such my training is limited to treats, toys, and scraps of knowledgeable I can pull/ improvised equipment.

So here’s some information about my sweetheart Lilo. She was drum roll please…a pet store dog (before we knew it was bad of course). She is a “miniature schnauzer” or a miniature schnauzer mutt as she is “blue Merle”. We don’t know what she’s mixed with as she was sold to us labeled a pure bred. Due to the fact when we bought her when she was around 4 months old aka when the socialization period closes for puppies I’m sure this is why she has such a hard time and a lot of anxiety.

She, as you can imagine is very anxious. She doesn’t like grooming, doesn’t like new people, is dog reactive and lacks a lot of confidence. All things I am trying to work on. We actually made a breakthrough and now she lets me shave her! Tho not around the face and head area which is fine by me as long as she lets me get some things done and I’m so so proud of her regardless.

Lilo is the type of dog who’s sensitive to a lot of things and it definitely affects our training. She’s very eager to start but if I make some handler errors her response is to kinda just…walk away. If I try to get her to re engage with an easier criteria she just doesn’t want to try anymore. We are learning and I’m sure with the right handler who knows more than me she’d thrive. When I do eventually get a job I want to see if I can get her into dog sports and see if I can afford a proper trainer for confidence building as well as learning to be a better handler for her. That’s kinda a brief introduction. She’s an anxious, sensitive little soul that is a byb girl who spent her most important developmental period in a pet store glass box alone. I love her to bits and will continue to learn for her sake so she can have her best dog life with what I can do.

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 15 days ago

Reactive dog + headphones?

Hello everyone! First off I want to say thank you to everyone who gave me book recommendations in my last post here! Thanks to everyone I have a long list of books to get and look into once I get a job and money! I actually still have a few to add to my list. I saw Patricia McConnell mentioned a lot and after finding out she is a well renowned animal behaviorist, zoologist I definitely think her books will be some of the first I'll get if all goes well in finding a job.

I digress. I wanted to pop on here and ask if anyone ever used dog headphones for their reactive who are prone to being over threshold as soon as they step outside? If so how has it worked out for you and your dog's training? To be honest I don't think its the sound at all that makes my girl go over threshold. I think of course it comes ultimately from a lack of confidence, a lot of visual cues especially things she's nervous about (exp: people, cars, dogs) and of course smells. In terms of sounds I wouldn't be surprised that that's part of it as well (inside she's pretty hardy and doesn't care about fireworks or thunderstorms which happen quite often here but that's very different then outdoors). I'd just wanna gauge if anyone has ever done it to help their dogs feel a little more relaxed. Has it affected your training and their ability to hear and respond to cues or their marker word? If they have a potential to make my girl more comfortable while we try to build confidence and make outdoors a little less scary until we can wean her off them off and use them temporarily until I can save up for a trainer. I was thinking of the brands Ruffland headphones or Doggy Hush.

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 1 month ago

Dog psychology/training books?

Hello everyone! I wanted to post to this Reddit because I would really love some science-backed dog psychology/training book recommendations. The people I follow on dogtok are knowledgeable as hell and im sure a lot of that will be from being active in the training community/ dog sports, training classes, as well as being open to learning more and admitting when you're wrong about something.

I can't afford any of those things as the dog I live with and want to train isn't even mine (she's my mom's dog) so I wanted to see if I can maybe get some psychology and training book recommendations that are science-backed. I'd especially love ones geared to reactive dogs/dogs who are for lack of a better word, are scared of life. My pup is the type of reactive where as soon as she steps outside she's over threshold, frantic sniffing, and won't respond.

The main issue I have with finding my own books is the fact in general I don't know where to look since the training industry is unregulated and im sure some training books might be not so good or of course doesn't cater to individuality of a dog, im sure a lot of books might be in the dog physiology field might be outdated depending on when it was written, and im not 100% sure how to know if a book with the science behind it is credible for more recently written pieces.

I'd really love to learn more about what I can do, and I'd love some recommendations that are safe to get into without worrying im reading something misinformed, outdated, or noncredible to the knowledge we have today so im not misguided. I'd love book recommendations as I know the sporting community has a lot of knowledge on training!

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 2 months ago
▲ 11 r/httyd

I'm bored, give me dragons to hybridize

Hello everyone! As the title implies im an artist. A very bored artist, so I thought I'd pop on here and ask for some dragons I can design hybrids of. I'm a very slow artist so I make no promises to be posting the results (tho I will try my very very best to do so because I understand it would suck to get comments and never post results). I thought this might be both a fun way to kill boredom and hopefully get some ideas on intristing dragon hybrid oc’s/Characters to make for my own original story.

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 2 months ago

How to help threshold?

Hello everyone! It's my first post here so I’m pretty excited. I wanted to see if I could get some help here until I can afford a proper dog trainer, I can trust to help me out with my dog's reactivity. So let me get started. I have a 2-year-old miniature schnauzer who is very fear-reactive. On our daily walks, she's a bit...much. I've tried to work on her reactivity solo but It's so hard.

So the main issue is her threshold. As soon as my baby steps outside she's over threshold. It’s genuinely so bad to the point that as soon as we step foot outside she's frantically sniffing, will absolutely not lift her head unless she sees another dog, person, or some other environmental factor that scares her, and won't take treats as soon as we step out. I'm not sure how to handle this because obviously if she's over threshold as soon as we step outside, and won't take treats there's no productive learning and the things we learn inside will be ignored even when it's skills specific to her reactivity.

I'm kinda at a loss on how to help her at this point. I have noticed some things that will help encourage her to take treats would be, tossing treats for her to chase, and rarely scattering treats in the grass (honestly I was shocked with this one since sniffing helps relieve stress haha). I don't really know how to “build” her threshold to make sure that once we go outside we can at least get her and keep her taking treats especially because the rare times she does she she’ll usually stop after more very frantic sniffing. Does anyone know what I can do or methods I can try to help her out?

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 2 months ago

Hair help?

I don't know how to take care of my hair

Hello everyone, im writing today because I need advice on hair care and figuring out my hair texture. This post is going to be a bit long, due to diving a bit into my hair history so I can try to get the best advice possible on how to sort out my hair, especially the frizz.

So about my hair history, both my mom and my big brother have very beautiful curly hair, while my little brother has pin-straight hair. Just like my little brother I used to have pin-straight hair during childhood through to elementary school. My mother says it was so straight and non frizzy when she'd put hair ties in they would slip out. Well during a trip to Florida, my hair texture changed drastically. My mother (she wasn't with us) is convinced my dad got me a perm. I do remember we did in fact go to a family friend (who works at a salon, so still a professional) and got my hair done and right after went straight to the beach. I can't say if I got a perm, I don't think I did but I also don't remember anything about the process to be 100% sure.

I think it could be genetic, because as I stated my mother and big brother have extremely curly hair, and I know hair texture can change over time. I've included some photos to try to show my hair and the frizz. While my hair was straight it grew pretty long, and now even tho it looks short and maybe even thin?, it's very dense and thick. I shaved it all off to have a fresh start due to not caring for it properly and it kept popping the electric razor head off or the razor guard kept getting stuck and the whole floor was covered.Does anyone think know my hair type, or have any tips on caring for it and how to help with the frizz? As you can see in the photos it's bad

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 2 months ago
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I don't know how to take care of my hair

Hello everyone, I'm posting here because I am at a complete loss on how to care for my hair and wanted some help. For context for the longest time in elementary school, I had pin-straight hair. No texture, no waves, no curls nothing, and my little brother's hair is the same way. My mom on the other hand has some very curly hair, and very beautiful hair, that she also gave to my older brother. After elementary school, I went to stay in Florida and when I came back for middle school my hair texture was completely different. It isn't curly like my mom's or older brothers', but it isn't straight anymore like my little brother's. Honestly, at the time I didn't know hair texture could change due to genetics, my hair is kinda wavy and very very frizzy. Even after I brush. Nobody has really helped me learn how to take care of my hair after it changed. I use my mom's curly hair products which don't seem to help much with the frizz of my hair. I really am at a loss on what to do with it, so much so I shaved my head yesterday due to needing a reset and I think it was for the best because I feel like I damaged it trying to care for it. Tho id like to see if I can learn how to take care of my hair type now and get the frizz under control when it grows back so I can have a fresh start. I posted two photos with examples of my hair (I hope the blacked-out face doesn't cover too much of the example) the first one is a good example of how frizzy my hair gets even with brushing, the second a better example to show the waves, not curls, but definitely not straight

Edit: for a little more important context on my hair during my Florida trip my dad got my hair done, and the same day literally right after we went to the beach. My mom is convinced my dad got me a perm and then went to the beach and that's what caused the change in hair texture. My hair was so straight before hair ties would literally just slip out so I get why this is her idea, as well as the fact that, if I'm not mistaken while hair texture can change due to genetics it's still usually earlier in life. (At least that's what my mom told me. I don't know if that's true my mom wasn't with us in Florida) I don't remember the process of getting it done or if it was a perm or just a standard hair trim and wash. If that is the case it sucks because I wouldn't know if hair care would help with what I have going on.

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 3 months ago

Rp parter search

Hello, I am a 21-year-old woman seeking a long-term preferably RP partner my age. For romance-based rps I do wlw. I am ok with oc’s and have some of my own, and I'm fine with oc’s x canon as well.

A list of fandoms.

Life is strange

Arcane

K-pop demon hunters

Warrior cats

Wolfwalkers

Watership down

Feral-based stories (I don't mind making our own story or characters so very open-ended)

Anthro stories (much like the feral-based stories this would be more open-ended to create a unique story)

Admittedly I don't know much about Yellowjackets but I found a starter for Natalie from a C.ai creator so that would be really fun. (just for clarification as well I don't use C.ai anymore but will look at it to get starter ideas from other creators or use the starters themselves with credit to the og bot creator. I had it when I was in highschool and didn't know anything about ai or how it steals from artists, or hurts our lands, which is also why I'm making this post! Plus let’s be honest it's always more fun with people!) If any of this interests you feel free to dm me! I’ll try my best to get back to you asap but it’s late here and my phone tends to be on dnd at this time so I might miss the notification sorry in advance.

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 3 months ago
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New heir?

Hello everyone! I wanted thoughts on this boy I bought. I bought him for 60 Sb and am thinking about using nominating him as the next heir because I think he is gorgeous. I wanted thoughts as well on using him for reverse breeding projects to see if I can get some pretty muties? What our the thoughts on if he is a stud or dud? I’m most likely going to use a nose and eye applicator on him for more contrast because I feel like with the white markings, his facial features kinda get lost a bit so if there are any ideas on what nose and eye applicators would look good on him I’d love to know. I’m also considering changing his opacities to 100% but I’m not so sure for that yet. I’d love to hear thoughts.

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 4 months ago
▲ 6 r/lioden

Thoughts on the opacity of these lionesses?

Hello everyone! I am writing to ask for some opinions on whether we think I should spend my time in Lioden right now saving Sb’s and changing these two lionesses' opacity for their markings. For context, I got them at the Giving Tree. I don't think they are worth anything so in my last post, with the first girl pictures I was teasing the idea of abandoning or chasing her. But honestly, even if she isn't worth anything, I decided to keep her because I really love her markings, and I'm sure, with the right stud, she'll have very pretty cubs. The second lioness I got today at the giving tree and I think she's pretty as well so for the same reason I'm thinking of keeping her. I wanted thoughts on whether we think I should save up to get some marking opacity changers and change their marker opacities because since they aren't worth much if I'm putting the work and money solely on their looks I want to make sure I make the right decision. So what do we think of their looks as they are right now, vs them at full opacity aesthetically speaking? I'd love to hear everyone's opinions!

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 4 months ago
▲ 15 r/lioden

Keep or chase?

Hello everyone. I wanted some opinions on this girl I got from the giving tree. I don’t think her value is worth anything but in my eyes she’s really pretty and I’m sure maybe with the right stud can make some pretty cubs. The issue being I’m currently low on space in my dens, as well as have no food to feed my pride much less her and no SBs to buy food bundles. That can easily be fixed by just hunting, exploring, and saving up to get some food bundles, but I don’t know if I should put in all the extra effort or just get rid of her. I’m at a loss because while her value might not be worth much like I said I think she’s really pretty. So what are your opinions and suggestions? Do we think I should put in the extra effort to get more food and keep her or chase her and use that effort for my other lions?

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 4 months ago

Tips for running with a reactive dog?

Hello everyone! I’m writing here because I wanted to see if I could get any recommendations on running harnesses for my dog. For a bit of context I’ve taken up some new hobbies to lose weight. One hobby I’m interested in yet haven’t taken up yet is running.
Nearby me there is a park, and I thought it would be fun not to just get into running for myself but have my dog join me, both as a companion for my own runs but also because I think it will be good to have a new way to have her get out as well (my family doesn’t do much with her besides potty walks, and I want to change that and give her a more fulfilling life).
I’ve been researching getting into running with dogs and I’ve been struggling with how realistic it would be with a reactive dog because of a hard time finding harness choices. I know if you’re running with a dog you of course can’t restrict the shoulders and there range of motion because you don’t want to risk potential injury. Having a reactive dog however when she sees another dog she is throwing herself all over her harness and I’m afraid with a running harness she’d easily be able to slip out, especially because she’s on of those dogs who ducks her head and pulls back on her harness. Is there any harnesses that are suitable for running, as well as escape proof?
If I can’t find any suitable options I’m afraid she can’t run with me until I can get a job and save some money to buy a proper trainer to get her reactivity under control. (Important note: if I can’t find any suitable options in harnesses this will not mean I won’t still take her to the park in her no escape harness to give her a more fulfilling life. It just means the new hobby of running together will sadly have to wait until I can trust she is more manageable in her reactivity).

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u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 5 months ago

Hello everyone! I’m here to ask for advice on dog grooming, especially if dog groomers linger in this sub Reddit. Due to having a very fear reactive dog, both to dogs, strangers, and grooming tools I groom her shave her at home. She’s at a great place in training that I can shave her down fully and safely without an issue. She shows some mild stress signals but nothing severe and she doesn’t run from the clippers or shut down when being clipped like she used to.

Of course with her break through I don’t really intend on talking her to the groomer (until I can get a professional trainer and can get her reactivity under control) for multiple reasons as long as I can keep shaving her safely. I prioritize her safety, others (she isn’t a bite risk but considering how fearful she is of strangers I wouldn’t ever wanna risk it) and other dogs. So at home grooming is the best option to keep her calm, non shut down during the process, healthy and happy, as well as not risk her training by sensitizing her to grooming process again.

Now the issue on where I need help is advice on trimming her beard (she’s a miniature schnauzer mix). Last time I shaved her I did shave her chin down, back of the head, above the eyebrows, cheeks, and ears. I didn’t actually touch her beard area because she was already at a pretty nice length from when I still was taking her to the groomers. I have thinning shears and I wanted to see if anyone had tips or techniques for trimming up a beard. For instance when I start if I should trim up and follow her jawline to the base of her ears. I included some photos. The first is how she looks right now, and the last two are after my first time shaving her to show reference on how short the beard was at the time to know the length i’m going for.

u/Beginning-Editor6280 — 5 months ago