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Desperately needing help

I have 3 dogs, my oldest us the best behaved. My 2 younger ones are absolutely the worst dogs I've ever had behavior wise. I've tried everything I know to do. My middle pees on my bed even after we take h im out. My youngest pees everywhere even after I take her out.

I've tried treats they haven't been working. If it helps to know the breed, my youngest is a boxer and my middle is a pit lab.

Unfortunately the potty is not the only problem I have. My boxer/ youngest chases my cats and I've caught her drooling while looking at them, hes not a drooled otherwise. And all 3 have chewing problems that toys dont seem to fix.

I've tried bones but they dont last long and typically they start fights even when I have several. Me and my bf work 12 hour shifts not everyday but several times out of the week and I hate having them Kenneled all day but if I leave them out they eat everything. From my walls, to my clothes, and even my shoes. We dont want to get rid of them because we do love them but im at a loss. Its exhausting.

I feel like every step forward is but 2 backwards. Please help me out with what to do. I feel like I've tried everything.

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u/SuckaBigtoe — 3 days ago
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Senior dog flying cargo

My boy Red is 15 and has back leg issues. Believed to be MD as he never seems to be in pain. He can walk around without his wheels however only for around 5 mins as he is wobbly so will eventually fall repeatedly.

Otherwise he’s all okay, kidneys, heart, brain, bloods etc all come back good when checked.

I have been in the process of moving to USA for a number of years and potentially gonna get my visa and 6 month travel window 2nd half of 2027. I honestly wasn’t sure when I married and planned this that Red would still be around as his siblings and parents passed around 10-13 years of age or earlier however Red is going strong.

I can’t imagine leaving him to someone random in the UK so I plan to bring him with me to LA, however I am worried about him flying cargo. He’s such a chill dog, social, loud noises don’t bother him and doesn’t startle easily. I’m just worried because of his age.

Has anyone else flown a senior dog cargo before on a long flight and can tell me how it was?

Thank you

u/JaCkOsAuReSs — 7 days ago
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Sudden drooling during walks?

Our dog has started drooling during walks. He never drools at home or when we play with him at home. He eats his food normally and seems comfortable and happy at home, and he also seems happy on walks and walks along at a good pace. He is 9 years old.

It doesn’t happen on every walk, but it’s happening on most walks now. However, there are still walks where he doesn’t drool at all.

Has anyone else experienced their dog suddenly starting to drool during walks?

u/Resident_Pilot_995 — 8 days ago
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Okay r/DogAdvice. I need your most creative, fool proof, and tried and tested methods for getting your dog to take their medication.

Meet Chloe, a three year old Shepard husky mix who I am waging medical warfare on. I have to give her multiple pills a day for the time being and we have a long history of not taking our medication. I've tried many methods in the past to make her take her meds:

  • pillpockets (wouldn't eat)
  • pills hidden in cheese or meat (ate around pills or wouldn't eat)
  • pills crushed up and hidden in food (current method. She is starting to figure out what food has been tampered with and avoid it)
  • prying mouth open, shoving in pill, and massaging throat (we've had 30 min long stand offs where she pretends to swallow but doesn't actually)
  • dropping pills accidently or on purpose (doesn't matter, result is an abandoned pill)

Next will be buying wet dog food and mixing crushed pills into that in a place she can't watch me open pills. After that, I think everything will have to be crushed, mixed in water, and given via syringe.

With nothing to loose I humbly ask for your best and worst medication tips, tricks, and horror stories. Schadenfreude, gloating, solidarity, and reminiscing are all welcome.

u/Adventurous-Blubry — 10 days ago
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Dog does this every single time after eating, why?

Hello! My dog blue has done this without fail every single time he eats his food since we adopted him last year. I’ve had many dogs throughout my life and not one has even done this. Why does he do this? I think it’s just the funniest thing lol

u/Wild-Sundae2552 — 11 days ago
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Need Help/ advice

I have a 3 year old golden retriever that all of a sudden freaks out every single night for almost a year now. The freaking out consists of panting, crying, him trying to open every door in my room until he settles. He used to be a dog excited to go to bed and would curl up with me no problem at all. I went to the vet and we tried the "all natural ways" of CBD, Melatonin and calming pills and nothing seemed to work. Fast forward, it is now happening every time i leave my apartment. He now is pacing, nudging the doors, scratching the doors, tearing down blinds, crying and completely just working himself up. I have taken him to the vet where we are now putting him on doggy Prozac and it has been 9 days and if anything he is worse at night and I never leave him alone. I need help or advice or anything.

I want to make a side note, he stays with friends and dog sitters and does absolutely amazing there but it is something about my apartment and my room and possibly being shut in. PLEASE any advice is needed.

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u/Feisty-Can5563 — 6 days ago
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travelling w newly adopted dog - fly (5hr) or drive (45 hours)

So this is a fairly complicated story so I will TLDR it first;

5 hour plane ride or 45 hour drive (several days-week) for a dog who is currently my parents dog but being given to me (is familiar with me)

So the story here is that my parents “got” a french bulldog last summer from a breeder she came from a situation in which she was a breeding dog, and had just lost her pups. She was very thin, threw up a lot. She was in a good guardian home prior (had a healthy first litter) but was given up by that home (not bc of the dog but bc the guardian’s situation changed) and given back to the breeder (where she didnt seem to be treated well)

Now, she has been with my parents almost for a year and she is a healthy weight, much happier and is just doing really well.

My parents have offered to give her to me, as I really want a dog and the already have 2 dogs. She is very familiar with me and likes me - but I am in a bit of a unique situation where I am moving at the summer.

Currently, my plan is for her to keep living at my parents house, with me, over the next few months, then take her with me.

The problem I am having is I am moving far away, either a 5 hour plane ride or a 45 min drive 🥴

I know flying is not great for short nosed breeds, but how much is this a worry?

Also since she will already be leaving the home she is used to to come with me to a new place, would driving be more stressful , vs an uncomfortable short amount of time on the plane?

Any thoughts or advice is really appreciated. I just feel so guilty causing her more stress, but I know she will have a really good life w me.

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u/SollyKins — 7 days ago
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Solo dog owner post breakup advice

Hey all

Just looking for a bit of advice/reassurance.
This big goof is my 2 year old Corso mix. I rescued her about 4 months ago with my partner. She’s a dream girl, my Velcro dog but also very independent and is completely settled on her own. We both work full time and have never had any issues leaving her alone.

Over the weekend we have separated and he has moved out so it’s just my girl and I now. Despite her being completely fine being alone, I’m starting to feel all this guilt that she will be alone a lot more now when I’m at work. I’m a shift worker so we don’t have routine unfortunately as I’m coming and going at different times when I’m at work. When I’m not at work, I give her lots of my time and even when I do work we walk every day and I give her all the enrichment I can before I leave.

I guess I just want to hear some experiences of people who have gone from being in a relationship to owning your dog solo. How did it work out for you? I’m giving her the best life I possibly can and I know she’s better off with me than the shelter but I just can’t help but feel so guilty.

u/sookybabe — 11 days ago
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Two very different dogs having to live together. How do we handle aggression and boundaries?

Currently, we have a family member’s dog staying with us, and I’m struggling to figure out how to manage the situation between him and our family dog.
Our dog (Maggie) is about 45 pounds and is extremely hyper, friendly, and loves absolutely everyone and everything. Honestly, to a fault. She can be a huge pain in the ass because she doesn’t understand boundaries. My parents are older and adore her, but they’ve also spoiled her quite a bit. I recognize she needs more training, and I fully intend to work on that.

Our family member’s dog (Charlie) is about 70 pounds and is the complete opposite. He’s relatively calm, can go to parks and cafés without issues, and is generally well-behaved. However, he has a history of biting another dog and is very possessive of food and toys.

Since staying with us, Charlie has lunged, growled, and snapped at Maggie on a few occasions. Maggie usually backs down and hides, but shortly afterward, she’s back to her usual hyper self, wanting to interact with everyone.
We’ve noticed that Charlie’s aggression seems to be mainly related to food and toys. For example, he once growled and nipped at Maggie simply because they were sitting near someone eating, and he seemed to think she was going to get some food.

We try our best to prevent these situations by making sure there are no toys or food around whenever they’re together. Interestingly, without those triggers, they coexist pretty peacefully and can relax in the same room without issues.

Maggie has never shown possessiveness over food or toys. I can take a bone directly out of her mouth without any reaction, whereas Charlie will growl.
Today, however, Charlie bit Maggie hard enough that she was bleeding near her eye. This really scared me and has made me increasingly uncomfortable with the situation.

I understand that Maggie needs to learn boundaries and that her behavior can be frustrating for another dog. However, I also feel that Charlie’s owners tend to downplay or excuse his aggression, which worries me given his history.

I love Charlie, too, and know he’s brought a lot of companionship to our family member. I don’t think he’s a bad dog, but I also don’t think it’s fair for Maggie to be at risk of getting hurt. I’ve never had two dogs living together before, so I’m genuinely unsure what’s normal and what isn’t.

My main questions are: How do you manage two dogs when one doesn’t understand boundaries and the other has resource-guarding tendencies? Is peaceful coexistence realistic with proper training? And how concerning is Charlie’s behavior, especially now that he’s drawn blood?

For now, we’re keeping them separated. I know both dogs have things to work on, but I want to make sure we’re handling this responsibly. I’d really appreciate advice from anyone who’s dealt with something similar.

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u/Automatic_Disk_1150 — 6 days ago
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Advice needed - nasal hyperkeratosis!!!

Hi everyone! Looking for some advice because we’re a little stumped.
My 8-year-old pit mix has pretty severe nasal hyperkeratosis. We’ve tried just about every remedy and nasal balm out there, with very little improvement — even antibiotics.
Recently, she stayed at my parents’ house for 4 nights, and when she came home, her nose looked almost completely healed! Obviously, we were thrilled, but it also made us realize there must be something in or around our home that’s triggering it.
Nothing changed while she was away in terms of her food, and since then we’ve been trying to eliminate anything we can think of. We’re on well water, we’ve removed air fresheners/fragrances, and we’ve been extremely mindful of anything she could possibly be getting into in our fenced-in yard.
Unfortunately, after being home for about 3 days, the severe dryness started coming back.
Has anyone experienced anything similar or discovered an environmental trigger for nasal hyperkeratosis? At this point, we’re desperately trying to figure out what could be different between our house and my parents’ house. Any ideas or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
As I mentioned, we’ve tried just about every topical product/nasal balm out there, so we’re especially interested in possible environmental causes or things around the home that we may be overlooking.

u/fletchmeifyoucan1 — 10 days ago
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Does anyone else’s dachshund cough like this? Going on for 2 years, worse at night and with excitement

Hi everyone, I’m hoping to hear from other dachshund owners who’ve experienced something similar.

Our dachshund has been having coughing episodes like the one in the video for about two years now. The cough comes and goes, seems to vary with the seasons, and can be worse at night. Excitement also seems to trigger it, especially when I get home, when someone comes over, or whenever our dog gets excited.

We’ve seen several vets, and the treatment so far has mainly been corticosteroids. Sometimes they help, but other times they don’t seem to make much difference. Allergy testing suggested an allergy to mites, but we still don’t have a clear understanding of whether that explains the coughing.

It’s really upsetting to hear, especially after dealing with it for so long and still not having it consistently under control.

Has your dachshund had similar coughing fits? If so, what did the cause turn out to be? Were there any particular tests, specialist appointments, or long-term treatment plans that helped?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences so I can discuss the next steps with our vet. Thank you!

u/Is-there-Alternativ — 10 days ago

Dog sounds aggressive but is just happy?

This is my 5 year old female American lab retriever. Ever since we adopted her at 8 months old, she’s been amazing. Great friend, wonderful animal. Learns fast. The best temperament. The only downside, we cannot get her to stop barking at people. She LOVES people but sounds like she wants to eat them. We have tried everything under the sun except shock collars which I refuse to use. I’m desperate to find a way to remedy her seemingly aggressive behavior. All our neighbors know her, and know she just wants to say hello and be pet but she scares the kids and it’s down right LOUD. Pics of the Layla Bean, last one is she loving on my pregnant tummy. (Baby loves the dog but dog could not care less about the baby.)

u/Aggravating-Club-487 — 11 days ago
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Sundowning help

My boy, Fillmore, (13yo)has started sundowning in the last two months… It’s really torture to watch. Upon the advice of my vet we’ve started to give him 600 mg of gabapentin and 3 mg of melatonin at 7 PM. By 9 PM it kicks in and he had been sleeping ..well now the whole process seems to be starting earlier at about 5 PM with pacing crying and complete agitation. I don’t necessarily want to give him his medication earlier for fear that it will wear off before dawn. Has anybody experienced this? What worked? It’s so heartbreaking to watch because he is perfectly healthy and himself during the day. i’ll also add that he is an Am Staff, and 65 pounds

u/Pibblemom_rbk — 10 days ago

Family evicting me but want to keep my dog

This is a rough situation but I don't really have anywhere to ask for advice other than here. I moved up to live with an uncle with my mom about 10 years ago. Have two shelter dogs, and there's a lot of acreage for them to run here though these folks have strict rules to always have them tied up at all times to a cinder block on the patio. Basically the only time they're let out is to use the restroom on a tie out that is hung on the patio door. Ive walked them regularly while balancing work schedules but they've walked them maybe a handful of times in 10 years. Their life revolves around trying to impress people and upper social class movement.

My uncle was the Grand commander in the " Stone cutters Club " and the plan was always for me to join but after my interactions with him, his deceptive sith Lord like behavior, and my research about that organization decided I don't want anything to do with it. He always put on a friendly facade with me to make sure I continue to pay rent and split repair costs, and be his personal handyman but I kind of knew that him and my mother were always plotting to disinherit and get rid of me the whole time no matter what I did. As time went on he gradually escalated verbally and then physically abusive with me.

Fast forward to today they've served me an eviction notice want me take one of the dogs and keep the other one. Apparently they say I've been asking too many questions and putting two and two together. What is the legality of this is I'm technically responsible for both of them. I found a house to lease but want to ask this community what would you do would you allow your (ex) family to keep one of your dogs?

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u/Foreign-Measurement7 — 10 days ago
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My dog is addicted to fetch?

Suddenly my dog (year old Havanese) ONLY wants us to throw his ball. But what he does is he drops his ball really close to you and then just stares really stalker-like (it’s happening as I type this) but he’ll sit and wait until I throw the ball for however long it takes until someone throws it before repeating the process. He doesn’t even really bark at the window without the ball in his mouth or next to him and immediately goes back to lurk on someone else’s with the ball once he’s done looking out the window. I tried training him new tricks and he didn’t have very much interest in the treats because of the dang ball which is shocking since he’s a foodie. He isn’t aggressive about the fetch at all he just lingers 24/7 with the ball waiting for it to be thrown. He gets lots of love, exercise, and mental stimuli from puzzles. What is going on?

u/kissmybuttplease — 8 days ago
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White dog gums

My friends dogs gums are white and he can barely move what do I do I mean they are as white as a white car, she is taking him to the emergency room vet but she wants to know what’s wrong with him, he is laying in the floor like he cannot move he is pooping black bloody poop she gave him meds for hookworm and roundworms, last night

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u/Warm_Agent9107 — 11 days ago
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Dog Crate

My almost 2 year old Irish setter has figured out how to unlock his crate when no one is home. From what I’ve seen when he is crated during meals he has managed to lick and nudge the sliding locks until they are undone. I tried using carabiners to lock the locks in place and he’s managed to bend them through his determined efforts. He has also managed to bend the crate due to his escape efforts. Do you all know of any crates that are harder to unlock?

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u/e_a_sports1995 — 8 days ago

My dog freaks out and yelps when we touch her feet, so she clips her own nails 🤷‍♀️🙄

She keeps them short enough, we figure taking her to the vet for clipping or attempting it ourselves would be dangerous and also extremely traumatic for Shelby. We don't know why she hates her feet touched but as soon as we lay a hand on them she screams as if we're going to hurt her 😭

u/PartTimeJunkie412 — 10 days ago

Skin issues

This appeared after I adopted my pup. She had one small spot while I fostered but it has spread and she is very itchy. Ears included, due to her nail lenght(now cut 😮‍💨) they were bleeding

Has anyone experienced this and have recommendations or know what led to there dogs issues

u/Imaginary_Wind_8152 — 10 days ago