u/AdRemarkable1023

I am a straight male who just doesn't care about sex. It has never been a fantasy for me, and the only time it ever WAS a fantasy was when I was trying to pavlov myself because I felt weird when I first realized the thought of sex did nothing for me. Obviously, this never worked.

On the other hand, though, I definitely do have sexual fantasies. They just are not related to sex. And I certainly experience sexual attraction as well. I just don't really get it. From the definition of asexuality, my experience doesn't seem to fit the bill, but the only other option is to just write myself off as an abnormal guy