Why did my girlfriend (18 F) randomly block me (18 F)? Any input on what to do and whether she’ll ever come back?
I’m gonna jump into it. I met a girl on a dating app on the 17th of May. We hit it off well right away. We talked about my outfit and a show we both like, The Walking Dead for anyone wondering, and plans to meet soon.
She lives in Indiana about 2 hours away from me, who lives in Ohio. She was willing to make that drive, and we spent several hours together, just talking and we got into vulnerable territory, talking about trauma a bit and intimacy. She was so nervous talking on the phone and then meeting each other for the first time.
One of the conversations we had was how she liked purified water and I don’t. I told her I like the specific brand of Ice Mountain spring water, and she jokingly made fun of me for it. Despite my dislike for Dasani brand water, I still got thirsty and she decided to share with me. We had already made out after all, there wasn’t a whole lot of a difference. She came down again two days later and we connected deeper than the first time, and this time, despite making fun of my choice of water bottle brand, she had bought Ice Mountain from a gas station on the way. I mentioned it to her and she said, in a slightly bashful way, “It’s all that happened to be at the gas station.” My thoughts on this is that anywhere that has Ice Mountain water would likely also have Dasani or other purified water brands. The brand choice felt very intentional. (I know I’m talking so much about water, it connects later.)
We watched our common favorite YouTuber, Daz Games, and we talked about a lot of things, and she kept making me laugh because she said she liked the way it sounded when I did. She also kept looking at me when she thought I wasn’t looking back, and when she looked at me, her pupils were dilated. She was always wanting to be close to me even in stores and other public places. She was always saying I’m so pretty, and she got nervous when I admired her. I’ve been played before, and I know what it looks like. That isn’t what this was.
We then said our goodbyes and that was lengthy as we kept being clingy and touchy, not wanting to leave but needing to. She hugged me at least 3 times and then after she left, she had my skirt and she came back to give me her sweatshirt.
We talked on the phone often, and she was always able to tell when I was upset, even over text, and always said she loved me and reassured me.
Anyways, a bit later, she said goodnight I love you and an hour later I was blocked everywhere. Tiktok, Snapchat, iMessage, Instagram. All gone. I sent her message after message from TextNow asking what happened and why she was doing this, and she hasn’t replied to any, just hard blocks me. I finally stopped chasing her and she unblocked me for a moment so I can send like a single message and then never replies and blocks me again. She will unprivate her tiktok so I can view it on another account before privating again and blocking the account. I still have her sweatshirt, she still has my shirt. We had active plans for me to drive to Indiana to see her, and she seemed excited about it. But then this sudden thing happened. I’ve seen her reposts and three stuck out to me: One about “Me acting cute knowing I’m about to probably ruin their life”, another saying “Intimacy is buying someone’s favorite drink because you miss them so much”, which connects potentially to the water story from earlier, and the last one is a tiktok about her fear of intimacy.
Three more things, I think that’s it. Her best friend also has me blocked. And, she’s deleted her tiktok bio we used to always joke about. And lastly, I sent her a very long, heartfelt message and it wasn’t blocked until hours later.
Sorry, this is a lot. Ideas on what happened and what to do? Will she come back?