Why is being bisexual so hard
Im (17m) struggling, not with my sexuality, but with figuring out those who may also be or not. It’s not hard at all to talk to any girl for me, it’s like if I get rejected then oh cool? And I can develop romantic feelings for them.
But GUYS?! I see them romantically and sexually, but that’s not the problem, the problem is that i can’t read them and i loathe it.
Some claim they’re straight, but the way the talk to me, look at me and flirt and sometimes say they’re just joking, or are super sweet to me REALLY throws me off.
It’s like I could screw my friendships up with any of them if I tell them how I truly feel about them, and the thing is they don’t even know that I’m bi, it’s like they’re leading me on but.. aren’t?
And on top of that I have a bisexual girl - friend who nobody cares that she’s bi, and that applies to every lesbian/bi girl I know, it’s like it’s normalized, but if a guy says he bi everyone looks at him crazy.
It’s hard being an almost adult bisexual male with no relationship experience man, I swear.