Let's talk about: Dating horror stories
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Fun read lang para maiba naman sa mga nalulungkot o gulong gulo dito. Share a dating horror story! 😁
Pwede din about ex or someone na nakadate niyo na masasabi niyong red flag, kakaibang behavior or straight up umalis na agad kayo because weird na yung nangyayari.
Mine happened 10 years ago with my ex. I wouldn't really regard it as horror story kasi kasalanan ko naman talaga but this is the closest I can think of. This happened when my delayed development of frontal lobe hasn't happened yet, early or mid 20s I think and I am pretty immature pa. My ex is great pero I decided to break up with her kasi di na kami nag aalign. Long story short, di siya pumayag at cinonvince ko sarili ko na baka it's a me problem, na baka I should just learn to love her more. Kaso.. ewan.. after this relationship, naging non negotiable ko na ang chemistry. So my partner right now, I met at work. She got attracted to me instantly and decided to hit me up. Nung una nagrerefuse pa ako sa mga yaya niya dahil may gf ako, kaso persistent siya and I made the mistake of turning in to the temptation. Nagkausap kami lalo and more. So one time, inuman.. i was so drunk na di ko na pala narereplyan ex ko o talagang deliberate na i am trying to silently quit the relationship (sa totoo lang di ko na matandaan, dalawang presidente na kasi ang nakaraan nito) , sobra siguro naanxious siya na binuksan niya yung messenger ko dahil may access siya sa accounts ko. Yun, dun niya nakita na I was cheating. So medyo hungover pa ako nung tumawag siya at sinabing nakita niya lahat. She was so mad of course, but she still didn't break up with me. I broke up with her after that.
The following day, pinuntahan niya yung partner ko sa work namin, kinausap niya ng masinsinan. After that talk, kinausap niya ako and asked if ayaw ko na ba talaga o pwede pa bang ayusin (sabi ko nga sainyo super bait nung ex ko at talagang nagmahal lang siya at ako ang k*pal dito), I said no na talaga. Whatever happens happens nalang, but I was pretty sure na ayaw ko na talaga sa previous relationship ko. Then when everything settled down na after a few months, she emailed me that I was an ungrateful bitch and I asked her kung paano yung solian ng gamit, saan ko ipapadala or what. She replied, "eh yung pictures na hubad ng gf mo, san ko ipopost? Sa workplace mo o malapit sa kung saan ka nakatira??" Nashookt ako mhie, but at the same time, alangan namang pumalag ako e ako na nga nagloko? So I apologized to her, like a lot of times pero I understand she's still mad and she said a lot of things pa. She even said something like she got our energies read? About elevating higher and manipulating stuff, law of affinity, etc. Parang ganun.. and said that next on the list is my friend. Medyo nacreepyhan ako ng very light pero as someone who believes in spiritual stuff, di ko siya dinisregard. Or probably it's just karma at naniningil na. Kaya noon kapag may nangyaring di maganda sakin, iniisip ko baka yun na yung sinasabi niya hahaha or just coincidence. I know she was just mad at that time, I mean who wouldn't be?
TLDR: nung medyo bata bata pa ako, nagloko ako sa ex kasi nga k*pal ako at nagcheat ako for my current partner of almost 10 years. My ex kinda threatened me na ipopost niya yung hubad na pictures ng partner ko sa workplace ko o kung saan ako nakatira, she also said some spiritual things about our energies and that she manipulated it and my friend is also next on the list. In the end, I think galit lang siya nung sinabi niya yung mga yun.
So since mahaba na, kwento mo na yung iyo. 😁