Questions about married s*x life in Islam
(Burner account for privacy) hello I’m a lost single muslim (F) and I have some random burning questions (mostly about s\*x) that I haven't seen asked anywhere so I will ask them below:
can I take nudes for myself? ( and store them on a game console and nowhere else)(UNMARRIED) & I wouldn’t print or distribute these Images anywhere.
can I WANT to be in pain / consensually inflict pain on my husband during s\*x? I don’t mean anything crazy but basically like scratching, biting , hickeys, strong spanks, etc. (not that I will necessarily do any of this , just knowing to know) ( all of this would go both ways)
is birth control (to temporarily avoid being pregnant) haram? Like for context if I was on it for like 2 or more years (while married of course)
in general can I wear revealing clothes if I’m alone? Or nothing at all , or do I have to be married?
can I experiment with aphrodisiacs, oils ,candy ,food , candles , juices ,etc. during s\*x?
can I do poses from the Kama Sutra or from the internet (like drawings not actual people) while married? ( like suppose using the physical book for the Kama sutra )
can I speak about being horny,wet,attracted to a person ,or just being in the mood to a friend of the same gender? (UNMARRIED)
can I sext with my husband( without sending nudes) and can I expose myself to him on a facetime call? (suppose he is away)
any facts that might be helpful in this context are welcome and appreciated , thanks in advance!