So I’ve joined this luxury gym and they have a cold plunge which is around 8-10°C & I absolutely cannot last in there without freezing my legs off like my feet numb !!! I jump straight out is this normal ??!
How do I build up the time & resistance ?
I got offered a brand new build flat & moved in & my partner gave me 13k for furniture & stuff.
Spread over a few months.
I have spent all the money doing up my house and I have nothing in savings.
Obviously ex m8 made a weird comment “I have to work & you have everything handed to you so lucky” but I have been on UC due to not being able to work as I have severe mental health issues & my psychiatrist recommended I take a break prioritise my health & get on benefits.
Got a message from dwp that they got an anonymous report that I’ve had over 20k sent to me & that I’m offering sexual services which I am not !!!
Friend also reported me to my housing association saying I’m working as a prozzy out my flat & renting it out to others they came to inspect & everything I was shocked they eventually closed it down & said everything was fine.
They requested all my bank statements for 1 year which I’ve done but I’m so scared.
Ex friend said she’s gonna make sure I get done for benefit fraud & lose my flat.
Shocked by everything.
So i’m a 24 year old black female got in a bit of trouble and now i have to do unpaid work for community order.
There’s a few moroccan & afgani guys are & they keep on saying the n word.
I peeped this and asked them who gave them the pass they then went on to say “we ain’t saying it disrespectfully it’s not hard r it just means my friend” I then proceed to educate them. They actually does not mean my friend and it means black person and it was used to dehumanised black people and black people use it with each other as a term of endearment or camaraderie. They still insisted that they are allowed to say it because they are “sand n!ggers”
Anyways today he was talking to me and he kept on saying “my nigga” I told him look “we are friends but i’m not your nigga”
Mind you I don’t know my man from no where I just want to do my work & cut don’t want no problems.
He then said some more racist shit how “I fuck with black people just not black people that act à certain way the ones that are on violence and stuff” claimed he shanked up a black boy that was dating his sister & said “Muslim people get discriminated the worse we just don’t harp on it like black people do they’re victims slavery was ages ago”
I tried to explain to him about systematic oppression and all the stuff, but he’s just ignorant ASF he wasn’t trying to hear it.
He even claimed arabs were slaves and their slavery was worst than the transatlantic slave trade.
Upon saying all this I asked him if he had the choice would he be a white man or a black man this idiot obviously said he’d be white so he basically proved my point.
I’m not a snitch but constantly hear the n word fly out a non black persons mouth is really starting to fucking trigger me like I don’t want to come to work & be called a racial slur by some 18 year old arab criminal.
What should I do ?