Would you divorce your wife over something like this?
My husband was watching our 20month old for two hours while I took some time to myself.
When I got home, I heard our son in his room crying with the door shut. My husband was in the other room playing video games with his friends online with his headset on. I got really upset about this because he wasn't caring for our son and was gaming with friends instead while our son cried. He said it was around 30 min That our son was in the crib out of the 2 hours he was supposed to be watching him.
My husband got mad and told me to get out and slammed the door and apparently this was a live stream and his headset didn't mute and a lot of people heard our argument. This was his friends livestream (and source of income) and he was upset that I ruined this. I was now also mad that the argument switched so that he was mad at me, and felt like he wasn't taking accountability for watching our son.
Anyways, i was frustrated by the whole situation so i took our son to my moms house for the night to get some space and came back the next day after my husband apologized to me and said nothing like this will ever happen again and that he was wrong. He was raised by his dad and apparently his dad used to let him cry it out in his crib when he'd have tantrums. I don't agree with that.
I was venting in another thread and asking if I overreacted to The situation (im a stay at home mom), and so many women told me to leave my husband and divorce him.
I'd rather work on things and have this be something that doesn't happen again.
Would most men divorce their wife if she did something like this?