My day, as usual, is ruined by him, my husband.
This is a rant because I feel so neglected and worthless right now.
I have waited 1 month to be able to watch the Michael movie in the cinema with my husband. I bought the tickets yesterday after a long wait. When the day finally came, of course, some drama had to come up. He is in a facebook group where he sometimes makes jokes and tries to get peoples attention, even females. His account is open, he has his own pictures, and he specially makes forum posts to get people’s attention. Today he made a : get to know me : post, which I had said to him before I was not comfortable since 1 week, since I knew females would comment on it. And of course he had to do this post today, out of all days ?!
The thing is, he was open about it and said he made this post today. I told him openly, I am not interested you make these posts, females comment and you answer. He refused to delete the post, became angry and the drama began. I went to the other room and I did not want to escalate the situation honestly because he is crazy when he is angry. I just beforehand had said to him the reasons to remove it and if he doesn’t, plans will be cancelled today.
I checked his account again from my secret facebook account, and I swear, 3 women had already written a comment! I started to cry in silent because it is so crazy the whole thing. I understand sometimes he wants to have fun, make funny jokes etc for his own peace of mind, to be calm etc after a long day, but where is it to drawn the line when a partner says : don’t do this.
If I would have done the same, he would be fused with fire on me. He would call me a cheater and many misogynistic things! But when he do it, I am the drama maker.
No, I did not go to the movies today, after even he deleted the post, because it took him 2 hours to understand his disrespect to me. I am muslim and it is just unacceptable behavior. We had a big fight going back and forth and my day really sucks. I do not know how to deal with a man like this, who puts rules on me but acts as he wants.