Husband thinks I'm overprotective but I think he's careless. Advice please.
My husband has long said that I'm overly cautious and fearful. When I got pregnant, his biggest fear was that I would project this onto our baby and make her afraid of everything. He is the opposite. Very much an adrenaline junkie, loves motorcycles, and likes to challenge the purpose of rules and expectations. A while ago we were camping. There was an axe-throwing set up. He was holding our 8 month old in one arm and throwing the axe in the other. I said don't. Everyone else said don't. We got into a huge fight because he said there was no risk as that the target was 25ft away and there was no way it could bounce back. I said it was objectively stupid to throw an axe while holding a baby and everyone I know would agree. We are at an impasse and, honestly, in the moment I told him to leave. Please help. Please share any advice for how to communicate my side, or see his side, or even anyone that's been in a similar situation and can share what worked for them.
(Please don't suggest I leave my husband. He's great otherwise)