u/Beneficial-Try-7859

Hello! PLEASEEEE give me your honest and blunt opinions for two weddings I have coming up.

#1: St. louis end of August, “Dress to impress” code, indoor, after party at four seasons, 200+ expected attendance. Bride is Persian and I want to respect any cultural expectations for her that I may be unaware of.

#2: Sisters wedding, rural Missouri in October, “Semi-formal with romantic, garden aspired aesthetic” code, outdoor ceremony and indoor reception, 200+ expected attendance

I am pale, 5’2, flat chested with a muscular upper body. my hair is curly, short and thin so will be pulled back in a loose bun. I am stuck with these dresses but can do alternations. I am not in love with my shoe so open to other suggestions but I am limited to a short heel/flat due to ankle injury.

The last dress and green heel have not been delivered yet.

thank you in advance!

obviously she doesn’t look good and i’m okay with tossing her but I’m trying to identify what is going on so I can treat my nearby babies and prevent any further spreading. a friend gave me her a few weeks ago and i put her in the window and forgot about her. she’s been sitting in the window seal since and is in a no drainage pot (insert sad face). i watered her two weeks ago when soil was brick solid.