Dress code — As revealing as you can wear because it is girls only party with some male strippers as waiters.
Please suggest
Update 1: Why getting so much downvote. Did I ask something wrong on wrong subreddit?
Update 2: Some pervert men start messaging me, please stop. I am already married and already taken.
The lighting in the photo I posted last night was AWFUL so I took a photo outside! I don’t think the color looks as bad in natural lighting, but what do y’all think? I also am going to the beach in July and have been hitting the pool when I can so I thiiiink I’ll be tanner by mid September ?
Here’s the dress code as a reminder: “Semi-formal, please! We’re envisioning long flowy midi/maxi dresses for the ladies, and suits or sport coats with dress pants for the gentlemen. Please keep in mind, this is an outdoor ceremony and reception, in the grass.”
I also found another dress in my mom’s closet that I think would fit the dress code. Which option do y’all like better?
Thanks for all the help on the last post!!!
Im attending a wedding in Texas in September and have been getting some conflicting guidance on what colors are acceptable. I am a regular guest, not part of the wedding party. Here is the guidance taken directly from the website:
Semi- formal cocktail.Think night time garden party.
Please feel free to play with patterns and textures within the color palette provided, we want fun and colorful pictures with all of our favorite people. Statement accessories are also encouraged.
Have fun with your outfits and get ready to smile for the camera!
***We kindly ask no white, ivory, or perceived white ( like very pale pinks, yellows, etc) as white is for the bride.*🩷
Followed by this, there is an inspo board (first picture) and then a list of colors (second picture). Neither is identified as the color palette specifically. There is a range of colors on the inspo board, and the color list seems more limiting since really only 3 of the colors are safe to wear (burgundy, olive, dusty rose) according to the guidance above to avoid paler colors like pale pink and ivory. Additionally, the guidance that they want fun and color pictures makes it seem like they’d be open to more than just the three acceptable colors on the color list because they want colorful photos. So I guess my first question is— do they really want guests to just be wearing 3 colors only from the color list, or does it seem they are open to more colors like on the inspo board as long as they aren’t perceived white?
I have two other weddings coming up this year but this one is by far the most restrictive and confusing. Im trying to find a dress that would work for all. Im including the two dresses I was considering. One is orange, which is on the inspo board but not on the color list. The other is butter yellow, which is also on the inspo board but not on the color list. If it helps, im also very pale so the yellow will look even yellower on me as opposed to lighter on the tanned model. Two more questions: 1) do these seem like appropriate options given the inspo board above? 2) is the butter yellow too close to “perceived white” or ivory?
Thank you!!!
UPDATE: Thank you everyone for your insight!!! Hilarious to see how everyone is interpreting this differently. Honestly it was so validating, and makes me realize guests will be equally confused and probably all interpret it differently. Which makes me feel better and less stressed about following these cryptic rules perfectly. There does seem to be some consensus that the yellow dress is a no go, so im eliminating that one. I went ahead and ordered the orange dress. The first wedding im going to and will need the dress for is in 3 weeks, plus im moving in that time so I just needed it to be over with. I will casually keep looking though, so if I find something that I both like and is even better suited for the inspo board then I’ll go with that, but overall your comments have helped me realize that as long as I look good and fun and colorful and dont wear pale colors, my intentions will seem good. Thank you everyone :)!!!!
Yes or no? Just wondering since they have white/ cream as the base
Hi guys! My cousin is getting married in early September and the dress code is black tie optional. I have nude heels to go with. Here are my top contenders:
For reference, I’m 23. My legs are pretty short (I’m 5’0”) so the slit shouldn’t be too high on me and I also wouldn’t be standing with my leg popped out like that lol. I will more than likely need to get the dress hemmed regardless so I can bring the slit down as well if needed.
I’m leaning navy blue or black (and they all come in both!) but I am open to other color suggestions as well.
My sister plans to wear this floral dress to my wedding.
My first thought was, isnt that abit too much white?
What are your thoughts?
Am i overthinking??
Edit: My wedding is at a church, not beach theme or anything and reception would be indoors.
Struggling to find something that I’ll feel comfortable in! would this be considered cocktail or is it too long?
The other bridesmaid is also wearing green but in general we are completely free to choose our own dresses. So it could be a different colour too. I just love the style a d fabric of this one
It's harder to tell in this picture, but I was 20 weeks pregnant. I was really happy with how we all looked together! I felt like my dress was totally appropriate with all the other family of the couple and tied in the colors that my husband and daughter wore, without trying too hard. The bride picked the white flower girl dress for the record.
Thoughts on this dress for a summer garden wedding in the UK?
With all the discussion about a dress being too white or to bridal for a wedding I saw this picture of Peyton manning and his wife Ashley at Taylor and Travis wedding. Do people really care anymore about a color of a dress? I know this was a formal attire event but I was like wow. Thought it was funny because of all the posts in this thread.
Dress code on the rsvp: “Semi-formal, please! We’re envisioning long flowy midi/maxi dresses for the ladies, and suits or sport coats with dress pants for the gentlemen. Please keep in mind, this is an outdoor ceremony and reception, in the grass.”
The wedding is at a botanical garden in September (so it will likely be hot)
I am 22 and this is the first wedding I’m attending that isn’t my family so I’m nervous…
Does this meet the dress code? Does it look okay on me? I really like the style, but I’m not sure on the color.
Edit: gonna try to get a photo outside tomorrow morning! I’m really trying to convince myself that the color isn’t that bad bc I really don’t want to have to buy something else, but I fear y’all might be right… but also I am going to the beach and an outdoor music fest so I might be tanner for the wedding?
Which one of these dresses would be appropriate for a Black Tie Encouraged at a West Coast Fancy Golf Country Club. Wedding is in early Fall. I feel like these dresses are too fancy.
I bought the blue dress first and I'm currently getting it tailored as it's a little too big and I think it's a bit frumpy. I know that one is wedding appropriate, especially once it fits correctly, but I don't feel that i look good in it.
I bought the pink one last week (I know I need to turn it to the side more). My fiance says it's not formal enough for the dress code and the coloring was too vibrant for a wedding guest. I personally thought it was fine, but I'm not from the UK and he is. Would that be better for like a semi-formal? I thought it covered plenty and the colors were perfect for a summer wedding.
I'll likely just wear the blue at this point but I'd like to know about the pink for future weddings.
Hi! Im going with my friend to a wedding as his plus one, and its a garden party themed wedding. I have never been to a wedding and Im so anxious about what to wear. I plan to dye tint this dress so its a little more purple because the bridesmaids are wearing blue. I also would alter the bottom a little so its more ankle height because the longer length feels a bit too much. I have no idea how formal its supposed to be and I dont know anyone other then my friend that is going. He said he did talk to the married couple to be and asked about it and they said "dont stress too much about the dress code, it'll be hot out so we dont expect anyone to get too dressed up." I also usually dress completely opposite of a garden party aesthetic so all the ruffles and colors I usually see in these type of dresses are something I dont personally like on myself so its super hard to find a dress that I like. The wedding is in 3 weeks so I have time to find a new dress if needed. Please help! Edit: thank you all for the advice, I will be getting a different dress that has a looser fit. It was comfortable on, but I definitely see now that the fit was too small.
I gave into peer pressure a bit when I bought this dress (still needs altered). My husband and sisters loved the dress on me (it’s my nephew’s wedding, so I made sure his mom was there to make sure it fit what my nephew wanted).
I think it makes me look bigger than I am. How should I get this altered to make it more flattering? Or should I buy a new dress?
Hi, friends! My uncle is getting married next weekend and the attire is resort wear (short sleeve button ups, linen pants, maxi/midi dresses. I plan to pair sandals and a wicker bag with this dress. The color on the dress says agave green - is this dark enough?
Would appreciate any input!
I’ll be attending a couple of upcoming weddings that have cocktail and semi-formal attire dress codes. The couples and attendees are pretty creative and artistic. I think this dress is very cool, but I am curious if people think the pleated skirt panel is too white. For more context, one of the weddings is for two grooms so I want to be mindful of anything that feels bridal. Appreciate your feedback!
Hey all, long time lurker, first time poster. For all the advice and all the creative dress codes I’ve seen here, I’m unsure about this one. I’m attending my cousin’s wedding in a Midwest city next week. I’m getting married the following week, so admittedly have not given the dress code as much thought as perhaps I should have The dress code description for their wedding is as follows:
Formal Cocktail.
Attire includes midi to floor length formal dresses, elegant jumpsuits, and sharp suits. We love a bright and playful energy so feel comfortable donning this formal clothing in any pattern or color except for white. Dress for the hot summer weather in formal cocktail attire that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Lean into the vibe of the day and this historic venue by dressing like you belong in a fancy mediterranean garden with colorful festive attire that is elegant and creative.”
I was planning to wear the dress in the photos attached (the second one is on the model, I didn’t have one of the back on myself), which I wore to a “coastal semi formal” wedding in Portugal last fall. It’s linen, which is a more casual fabric, but tailored and, frankly, exactly what I would wear in a fancy Mediterranean garden. I think I could dress it up with the right accessories. I’d wear higher-heeled shoes for sure and nicer jewelry. I don’t think my cousin will care too much but I prefer to show at least a solid effort to grant their wish here.
Am I totally off base here? Any ideas about how to build a good outfit around this dress, or do I need to find something else altogether? Help!