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So to do a backstory in her my brother met her through the company my dad works for. She’s about (32) now and my brother is (30). The relationship started when he had just moved out, had his own apartment, basically bachelor era. He was with her for about a few months and he broke up with her because she acted insanely jealous over his past relationships. He forgave her, they got back together and she moved in. Then he kept coming back home and told us (mom, dad, me) about how she had been destroying his collector items, threw eggs on Nintendo switch and ps5.

At times she wouldn’t let him leave and got in front of his car to stop him. He ended up giving up the apartment and moving what he could with our help. He had fully intended on going back to the apartment and getting his bed, shelves and tv but she had taken all of that.

He was single for a good few months, he lived back at home agin and ignored her. Then he went back with her again. She was living in an apartment with her baby daddy of her 1st child. I forgot to mention she has 4 kids. One child was taken away because she went to prison for beating her second baby daddy.

Back to the story. My brother texted her while she was with her first baby daddy and in a relationship. They ended up getting back together and marrying within the first week. A week later she exposed to everyone she is pregnant but we all knew since she looked it. We didn’t want him to marry her but just commented it was a bad idea due to how she is.

They moved out and then moved back in due to my brother losing his job. So my parents let him, his wife, and now their 2 kids live with us. She didn’t clean, didn’t cook, didn’t clean up after herself. She didn’t help out at all. She didn’t take showers often. She said she couldn’t do anything because she was pregnant. My mom and I had to clean up after her multiple times. At thanksgiving and Christmas dinner she didn’t help at all either.

Thanksgiving day she started an argument with my brother and threw his collected item onto the floor. I witnessed this in the living room. He didn’t wanna be with her anymore and she refused to leave. She’d often go to my parents room, wake them up and argue with them. My mom was sick and needing a liver transplant at this point. We even tried to call the cops but she had squatter rights. So we couldn’t move her out.

She’d make fun of my mom and said she had liver chirosis because she had stds? She had liver chirosis because she contracted Hepatitis B from being in the medical field. She also said my miscarriages had occurred due to me and my dad have incest relationships. She also sad my brother had done it with me because she found it odd how when we were teens we shared a bedroom. We were going up poor at that time so my parents couldn’t afford another room. Nothing happened.

Fast forward to a few months later they got their own apartment. It was a viscous cycle again. She’d start arguments, throw things and call my mom in the middle of the night. She’d often leave voicemails and texts messages accusing us all of having incest relationships. We aren’t close in the family with physical touch so I don’t know why’d she’d even assume that.

Now the truth came to light because of my brother. He told us she had prostitution charges and even touched her cousin when they were teens. So maybe she assumes all family are like that? She’s a really sort of jealous type to the point she wants no girl to look or even talk to my brother. She gets mad when a waitress talks to him nice, she wants him to somehow have no contact with women when he is working and to avoid them at all cost.

She found it weird I sent my brother memes. It’s to the point I have zero communication with my brother only when he comes over for refuge at our house.

She has pulled me into arguments and texted me mean things. My brother has agreed with her on calling me fat, gross, ugly, a loser and such just because it’s easier to agree with her. He’s told my father this. I dont know what to do if I’m honest. She makes me so mad a lot of the time because she’s the type to talk trash over text and never show her face. She hides behind people and my brother defends her a lot. She acts innocent and even says she is a Christian woman who is innocent and pure.