LEAVE HARAM RELATIONSHIPS!
So I had a conversation with this Maulana (Shaykh), and he explained very accurately the condition of today's youth. Read carefully.
Chatting with the opposite gender (Non-Mahram) is so normalized, in the beginning it seems innocent. First it is replying to stories, then late-night conversations, then “I’ll make dua for you,” then talking the whole day, until becoming emotionally attached, laughing together, sharing personal problems, and slowly your heart becomes dependent on someone Allah never made halal for you. This is exactly how Shaytaan works step by step, never all at once.
People today have normalized haram emotional relationships and then decorate them with Islamic words like “I'll ask you in Tahajjud,” “rizq from Allah,” or “inshaAllah future spouse,” while freely talking day and night. If they were truly serious, they would involve families in the first place and choose nikah, not secret conversations and endless chatting. This is the trap of shaitaan, let's keep talking until I get some good job.
These young girls and boys should stop being overly soft, friendly, and emotionally available to non-mehrams. There is no reason for unnecessary jokes, sharing memes, emojis, constant checking up on each other, or talking for hours. Even nowadays they are generating AI pictures together and keep looking at those pictures imagining the future. Shaytaan beautifies these interactions until the heart becomes addicted and sins become easy. Come back to Allah! Just block them and cut it off before the fitnah grows. Even there's a no need to explain why I'm blocking you. A fire is easier to extinguish from a spark than after it spreads. Lower your gaze, protect your heart, and repent sincerely to Allah for every private conversation, attachment, and moment spent displeasing Him. What begins with “just chatting” can end in heartbreak, sin, and distance from Allah. Do not underestimate the traps of Iblees.