u/Beneficial_Lab_8790

Things to do alone to get out of the house?

I’m a mostly recovered agoraphobe, like serious left the house a handle of times a year agoraphobe. One of my last really big hurdles besides getting a job (I’ve been applying but no luck so far) is getting my license and once I do I want to really emphasize going out by myself more. I’m making a list of things I can do, I have the basics (coffee shop, thrifting, park etc) what are some things I’m missing

Can require various anxiety levels (ex. Going to get a coffee 1/5, eating dinner in busy restaurant by myself 5/5) trying to build up a tolerance for discomfort lol

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u/Beneficial_Lab_8790 — 10 hours ago

No idea what to do with my life

I’m 26 with no plan but I’m trying to change that. Long sob story short I’ve had a lot of mental health issues and traumas in my life. After arguably my biggest trauma occurred covid struck pretty soon after and isolation and depression turned into around 5 years of legitimate agoraphobia, I only left the house a handful of times a year. Im finally in a better place mentally, still have a lot of work left but I do feel like at least now I’m stable enough to hold down a job. The problem is I have no practical experience and only a high school diploma. I was a vet assistant when I was 18 (probably illegally if I had to guess, I didn’t have any training and the vet was some predatory old guy on his way to retiring) for less than a year. I lived with my grandparents who both had severe Alzheimer’s so I became a primary caregiver for them from age 18-25, but again not much technical experience considering it was for family. I’m really a loss of where to go from here career wise. I’ve applied to several activity coordinator/assistant jobs at senior living facilities because I figured that’s a good fit. I’m an artist and working with seniors is where most of my experience has been. No luck, no replies, no interviews. I’ll take whatever I can get job wise right now but I obviously need a plan. How do you even figure out what you want to do? Trying to make any kind of money off of my art is a long shot and unreliable at best. I just need ideas here, I’m trying to get better and start functioning but the options are abysmal

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u/Beneficial_Lab_8790 — 28 days ago