My boss ripped into me pretty hard about resigning
I’ve been working part-time retail the past 3 years. And for the better part, I thought we worked well together when I was put on.
The past month I’ve been interviewing around for a full-time role, tying out my studies, and I happened to land a dream role for my field. I told my manager a few weeks ago that the role was meant to start in February 2027 like I was told, but having received the job, I was offered an earlier intake in July. Which I also mentioned.
I asked for no extra shifts beyond my current three days, and said I wanted to slow down once I started the other job, maybe just keep weekends. I then yesterday got told that I would be starting the 23rd of June, and it would be a full-time, 6 days, great pay. So rather than trying to be in two places at once, I decided I would resign.
When I told him, he lost it. Said that I’ve got no morals, and that what I’m doing wasn’t fair, especially having said I could “cover shifts in July,” which I never formally agreed to. He then when on a tangent about how much he’s helped me with picking up work around other stores and how I’ve wronged him with my decision. I said I didn’t like his tone, that yes he’s helped me, and vice versa. I then explained repeatedly how none of this was my call, and that this new work wouldn’t work with me in pushing things out, as it’s a group induction week. He continued the murmuring and ripping into me. And then finally I said, “I don’t even have to give you a month’s notice, but if you like I can give you two weeks and f*ck off and let you scramble for covers.”
It ended on pretty bad terms today. And I worked the rest of the day feeling like shit. He said to put it in an email. I’m considering whether I actually follow through and work till the 23rd of June, or if I just just give him 2 weeks. He’s had a history of talking down to me and others, and we’ve gone through 5 staff the past year because of him. I’ve tolerated him for ages, but I’m at my ends meet today, and I figure why do him any favours?