u/Beneficial_Rice_8439

Hi guys just looking to see if doing the stop start method would work for my case

So I have PE finishing in less than 45 seconds
I think my cause is due to my arousal going from 0/10 to 9/10 right away. The reason I think this is because once I penetrate I feel overwhelmed and it’s feels massively good from the second I enter. However when I’m on holiday or a hotel I can last a lot longer (talking 10-20 minutes) could this be that I’m more relaxed and my arousal gradually goes up ?

Another thing I wanted to ask is my penis isn’t sensitive when just doing normal things however once I think of anything sexual my penis goes overly sensitive and again feels very good if slightly touched could that also indicate my arousal spikes too quickly ?

If anyone is dealing or has overcome my same situation please share your thoughts

Hello everyone I was wondering if anyone struggles or has overcame the things I’m dealing with I have a series of questions

Firstly when I imagine or even see something slightly hot or if I’m massaging my gf i feel my penis tingle and go really sensitive Also when I solo masturbate I can last forever but as soon as I look at pictures it’s hard to control could this be arousal spiking quickly based ?

Secondly when I’m on holiday or even sometimes home alone I last however long i want to in bed with my gf could this be anxiety based or could it be nervous system related ?

Thirdly I feel like being over obsessed with fixing PE makes it worse for me it’s hard for my to relax or slow my breathing during sex and the thoughts always in my mind as soon as I put my penis inside I already want to cum how do I overcome this mentality

Lastly is my penis sensitive because I have ATP and a tight overactive pelvic floor ?

Sorry it’s messy and maybe hard for you guys to understand what I’m asking but if you can help I’d appreciate it.