I just do not know what to do anymore .I honestly think my partner has checked out or is mega lazy. The thing is, he is very affectionate. We drink coffee and talk for hours or have a bite and talk for hours he is respectful and does not cheat or beat or belittle me in any way, but the thing is, our life is a one woman show You seeI am the only one I go to work and the only one who does groceries and cleans (not that much and not that good but still just me )and cooks and throw the garbage or remember to pay the bills and only me who takes the dog out and cleans after it .He does nothing but talk to me sweetly and gamming or make plans. Mind you, pretty good plans, but all these plans die on letter .The worst came in March. The landlord told us to beat it. I was the only one searching for a house walking all over the city. I was the one who searched online everyday he just saw 2 days for 30 min because I was attacking him. I found the house, but this is not the worse, the worse is yet to come. You see, the new house was 1/3 of the apartment we were leaving we had too much sh... and I had to throw everything myself. Whatever it was heavy or not, I was the only one taking care of it He did not lift a finger according to him he only owes a luggage and a pc and ps5 and nothing more.He said l have to suffer so I learn the lesson to not be a hoarder (I am a hoarder admittedly)And suffer l did We were in the 5th floor I would drop a box then get up then another box I was in horrible stress and tired as heck for 9 days He did not lift a finger Then all the stuff that had to be transported to the other house I did it with a taxi or ten because he was against movers I feel very let down
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I just do not know what to do anymore .I honestly think my partner has checked out or is mega lazy. The thing is, he is very affectionate. We drink coffee and talk for hours or have a bite and talk for hours he is respectful and does not cheat or beat or belittle me in any way, but the thing is, our life is a one woman show You seeI am the only one I go to work and the only one who does groceries and cleans (not that much and not that good but still just me )and cooks and throw the garbage or remember to pay the bills and only me who takes the dog out and cleans after it .He does nothing but talk to me sweetly and gamming or make plans. Mind you, pretty good plans, but all these plans die on letter .The worst came in March. The landlord told us to beat it. I was the only one searching for a house walking all over the city. I was the one who searched online everyday he just saw 2 days for 30 min because I was attacking him. I found the house, but this is not the worse, the worse is yet to come. You see, the new house was 1/3 of the apartment we were leaving we had too much sh... and I had to throw everything myself. Whatever it was heavy or not, I was the only one taking care of it He did not lift a finger according to him he only owes a luggage and a pc and ps5 and nothing more.He said l have to suffer so I learn the lesson to not be a hoarder (I am a hoarder admittedly)And suffer l did We were in the 5th floor I would drop a box then get up then another box I was in horrible stress and tired as heck for 9 days He did not lift a finger Then all the stuff that had to be transported to the other house I did it with a taxi or ten because he was against movers I feel very let down