u/Beneficial_Syrup_110

Just wanted to vent a little. I just got my cousins save the date in the mail and her wedding is the Saturday before mine. She was engaged before me and When I began looking for venues I didn't know her wedding date but I was told by a mutual relative it was going to be in the summer(our weddings are both in September). It's too late for me to change the date of my wedding now, but I feel bad because I feel like I am stealing some of her shine especially since she was engaged first. We have a few overlapping guests but not many cause we're pretty distantly related and both our weddings are local so I don't forsee it causing too much of an issue guestlist wise. But I still feel really bad.